Hello, I have been searching for "HELP" ! I am a single mother. I have a 15 year old son that is OUT OF CONTROL! In one way I can say so far I am blessed to a point, I have not (so far) delt with him using any type of drugs. It is a "BEHAVIOR" situation. But it is a situation that has got dangerous for myself and my other children. Starting in 1st grade , the behaviors were just in school than slowly into our home as he got older. They are also getting harder to deal with and more dangerous as he gets older. My son has been arrested many times! More than I can count! I have worked with in home programs since he was about 6 or 7. which I am still still doing to this day. My son will go from a level (1) which is happy....to a level 10 (highest anger) in a minute! Anything and everything will set him off. At times when there is nothing for him to be upset about he will begin looking around the room for something to start about or he will begin "taunting" his siblings or myself until it causes a situation. Once he is told "no" or finds something to be upset about he will begin to yell and scream EXTREMELY loud! He will begin Cussing and being very disrespectful! He will Throw things, punch walls or people, hit, kick and spit on anybody near him. He will exit my home and start beating my windows and doors with what ever he can find...sticks, poles, or sometimes hit fists! He has thrown a cup Hot coffee on me as well as a glass of soda. He has tried hitting people with rocks (good size garden rocks) aiming at his siblings, myself and his 3 year old cousin. He is very disrespectful to ALL and ANY AUTHORITY parent, grand parent, police, in home help and PB officers! DCS had placed him in many programs hoping for changes , my son had been removed from one residential due to his level of behavior, to a higher security residential program. He has also been placed in Juvenile Justice (foster care) and also probation... Neither of these attempts worked. he has already violated his probation numerous of times. My son has had 3 to 4 different probation officers. As of right now, My son is home. He has been home for about 4 months after being released from residential, and has show the above behaviors pretty much EVERY DAY! They seem to be getting worse! Now when put him on a "grounding" for his behaviors he makes statements like "that's abuse" (taking his cell phone is NOT abuse) or Im letting my counselor know you hit me ( when NOBODY TOUCHED HIM!!!) . In the past , he had got my boy friend arrested by telling the police my boyfriend choked him. My son was mad the police were called, he had ran out side and opened a window in my living room and began stating "you wanna call the police on me??!! now watch when they get here! I am telling them you choked me....You will be coming with me A**HOLE" Speaking to my boyfriend. while my son was making those statements, my son had HIS OWN HAND ON HIS NECK RUBBING SIDE TO SIDE TO CAUSE MARKS ON HIS OWN NECK! After both were arrested and released , my son told me (WHILE IN ANOTHER RAGE) " I lied and got him (my boyfriend) arrested because you called the cops, i can do it again" Seeing i have other children.... I LIVE IN FEAR! He is pretty much running my house! I dread getting out of the bed in the mornings.... I now deal with anxiety! rapid heart rate and high BiPolar (BP)! I'm tired and worn out, but still have hope! I want nothing but the best for my son! HELP!