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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 763165" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Daze,</p><p>Yes, this…</p><p></p><p>I accept that my help does not help them. What is difficult and confusing for me right now, especially with the holidays coming, is the different theories on approach to dealing with addicted loved ones. There are sites that talk about the importance of family engaging, to let their wayward one know that they are loved, and that tugs at my heart. I’m not planning on staging an intervention, we are way past that. I know I cannot save them, and will not sacrifice the peace in my home. I guess what my heart and mind is questioning is do I try and reach out, and if I did, what would be the outcome for me? Would I feel relieved to see them, or would it make things more difficult? Would I even be able to find them? I will pray on this. </p><p></p><p>Oh man , Daze at times I wonder if I am doing right by my granddaughter. I do have help from my well adult children, and she is wonderful with her little brother, who just adores her. I surely do need blessings and the Force! The same wish for blessings and the Force be with you, to you</p><p>dear. We all definitely need a higher power to help be with us through good times and especially through the rough patches. </p><p>Much love</p><p>Leaf</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 763165, member: 19522"] Hi Daze, Yes, this… I accept that my help does not help them. What is difficult and confusing for me right now, especially with the holidays coming, is the different theories on approach to dealing with addicted loved ones. There are sites that talk about the importance of family engaging, to let their wayward one know that they are loved, and that tugs at my heart. I’m not planning on staging an intervention, we are way past that. I know I cannot save them, and will not sacrifice the peace in my home. I guess what my heart and mind is questioning is do I try and reach out, and if I did, what would be the outcome for me? Would I feel relieved to see them, or would it make things more difficult? Would I even be able to find them? I will pray on this. Oh man , Daze at times I wonder if I am doing right by my granddaughter. I do have help from my well adult children, and she is wonderful with her little brother, who just adores her. I surely do need blessings and the Force! The same wish for blessings and the Force be with you, to you dear. We all definitely need a higher power to help be with us through good times and especially through the rough patches. Much love Leaf [/QUOTE]
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