I'm new, but i have been reading your post for while now. My son is 31, has mental illness and does drugs. We asked him to leave our house recently for the third time. He doesn't want to do anything, he doesn't want to get help and he doesn't want to work. He comes around our house when we are not home. He takes things and when he breaks in our house he leaves a mess, like he wants us to know he was here. I feel bad because i don't want him to come home anymore...i'm scared of him. He never hit me, but i never knew how he would react when i would talk to him. Sometimes he was okay and we would have a great conversation, other times he would yell, cuss and storm out slamming doors. I wish he would go away and leave us alone and feeling that way makes me feel bad too. I worry about him being homeless, hungry, and cold, but i know i don't want him back in my house.