Hi, I guess I am to the point that I realize every day is precious and should be lived to the fullest. In my situation I just dread the moment she wakes up and starts calling me. This is a vicious cycle that I can't seem to break. I have tried over and over. I am raising her children. To be honest she has my life. She can't even babysit or help me cause she doesn't feel good and one of the children is special needs. Never does it matter how I feel. I have had both of the children since birth. One is 12 other is 16. I love them with all my heart but at 63 I am tired and my husband has health problems. We have no one to babysit at all ever. Our anniversary is in a few days. Forty years we have been together. All I ask is for a week to spend together. You would think she could at least give me that. She tells me there is no way..... she just can't but in the next sentence she needs money for her medicine or food. She has never worked and is on SSI . She married a man that won't work. They stay up all night sleep all day. And make my life a living nightmare. Could anyone offer any advise? I am so fed up and so physically tired but all she can do is cry and tell me how hard her life is.