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How do I deal with an ungreatful, moody adult daughter?
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<blockquote data-quote="fedup2" data-source="post: 630726" data-attributes="member: 18169"><p>Thanks everyone for such great advice! </p><p></p><p>Well, I'd finally had enough this morning after she smarted off to her dad. I blew up, told her I was sick and tired of walking on eggshells trying not to upset her and to please her - I'm damn tired of the eye roll and my not saying or doing anything to her standards. So, we packed our stuff and left 2 days early. I had volunteered to bring food to a shower her friends are throwing her tomorrow - she was in her room when I left so I wrote her a note and told her to get the stuff herself as I'm sure I wouldn't get the right stuff anyway and to send me the bill. I also told her that hopefully one day she would appreciate her parents. I hate bugging out on the shower but I threw her one in our hometown already and I figure this way she'll see I'm serious. </p><p></p><p>I am disabled as well and always push myself for her but I can't do it anymore. I'm not sure how or if this will resolve before the baby comes (she had gotten made at me a couple times in the last several years and not spoken to me for months) but I am sure that I won't be staying in her home - it's a hotel for us. Sad thing is that my mother always calls me when I visit her cuz she worries about how my daughter will treat me. </p><p></p><p>Oh well we'll see. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="fedup2, post: 630726, member: 18169"] Thanks everyone for such great advice! Well, I'd finally had enough this morning after she smarted off to her dad. I blew up, told her I was sick and tired of walking on eggshells trying not to upset her and to please her - I'm damn tired of the eye roll and my not saying or doing anything to her standards. So, we packed our stuff and left 2 days early. I had volunteered to bring food to a shower her friends are throwing her tomorrow - she was in her room when I left so I wrote her a note and told her to get the stuff herself as I'm sure I wouldn't get the right stuff anyway and to send me the bill. I also told her that hopefully one day she would appreciate her parents. I hate bugging out on the shower but I threw her one in our hometown already and I figure this way she'll see I'm serious. I am disabled as well and always push myself for her but I can't do it anymore. I'm not sure how or if this will resolve before the baby comes (she had gotten made at me a couple times in the last several years and not spoken to me for months) but I am sure that I won't be staying in her home - it's a hotel for us. Sad thing is that my mother always calls me when I visit her cuz she worries about how my daughter will treat me. Oh well we'll see. Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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