I have the same problem. Your message made me feel not alone. I’ve been told by friends to leave her alone but I care I think it’s an emotional caring attachment that I’m working on breaking. I feel stupid helping a unappreciative disrespectful person whose pity rude unreasonable and mean spirited. She has 3 kids and unmarried. I say if I had a son I wouldn’t want him in a relationship with herThank you so much for your reply! Yes, my husband is her father. You're right, she is a spoiled brat and I'm to blame for that. I just love her so much and want to be a part of her life, but I can't make her want us and respect us. I was so looking forward to having a great adult relationship with her and I'm so excited for my first grandson. I suppose I will head home as planned and just lay low. She is very mature in all other aspects - I think/thought. I'm sitting out on her porch waiting until I'm sleepy enough to go pass out and avoid her. Makes me so sad.