I know many of you have experience with therapists. How do I go about picking a therapist? I don't want to just have someone listen to my complaints, problems, short comings. I want advice on what to do. I need to know how, what steps to take to just let go, if that is what I should do. Our son was never diagnosed with anything. Manipulator, thief, brat, narcissist? I can't go on feeling bad about him forever. I have 2 wonderful (grown) children. I have a husband I love.