My son, who is prison 2nd time, his birthday is coming, which i will acknowledge, but my husband wont sign his card. Last time my son was in, hubby never went to see him, i did. But he did allow him to return home after first time. My son mostly steels his stuff, tools, money. My son did good for 8 months, then drugs again. I understand my husband, but......... I think my son really damaged relationship, there wasnt much of it before. I guess i will let be, its between them. But my future family vacations or holiday get togethers dont look too good.