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I called 911 last week re my 20 yo. Looking for support and suggestions going forward
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<blockquote data-quote="Ascending" data-source="post: 762471" data-attributes="member: 29778"><p>Text message from him asked for me to gather various belongings of his for a friend to pick up. On positive side he is accepting my statement that I am not ready to have him here nor direct contact at this time.</p><p></p><p>What I am wondering about seems small but may be important. </p><p></p><p>I texted back that it might take me several trips (because I am on crutches and some items are upstairs and some in basement and all I can manage at a time is what I can carry in a backpack) .</p><p></p><p>He wrote back “Duh”.</p><p></p><p>I think allowing minor disrespect like “duh” or “yeah yeah” may have been part of a slippery slope slide into the more extreme things. And it is something I want changed before I would consider direct contact (also being off drugs, etc) .</p><p>I would appreciate feedback on this and perhaps if it does seem worth calling out, or stating now that that’s one of the requirements for future direct contact, wording suggestions. </p><p></p><p>If you need more information please let me know!</p><p></p><p><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands :pray:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f64f.png" data-shortname=":pray:" /><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands :pray:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f64f.png" data-shortname=":pray:" /><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands :pray:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f64f.png" data-shortname=":pray:" /><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ascending, post: 762471, member: 29778"] Text message from him asked for me to gather various belongings of his for a friend to pick up. On positive side he is accepting my statement that I am not ready to have him here nor direct contact at this time. What I am wondering about seems small but may be important. I texted back that it might take me several trips (because I am on crutches and some items are upstairs and some in basement and all I can manage at a time is what I can carry in a backpack) . He wrote back “Duh”. I think allowing minor disrespect like “duh” or “yeah yeah” may have been part of a slippery slope slide into the more extreme things. And it is something I want changed before I would consider direct contact (also being off drugs, etc) . I would appreciate feedback on this and perhaps if it does seem worth calling out, or stating now that that’s one of the requirements for future direct contact, wording suggestions. If you need more information please let me know! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ [/QUOTE]
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