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I found myself here because I made my daughter leave today and am now remorseful
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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 760719" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>I would think twice about agreeing for her to live in your home and use a car in your name while you are not around on a regular basis for days or weeks at a time. That is a recipe for disaster. Just because she might agree to all your rules does not mean she will follow them while you are gone.</p><p></p><p>But, I know that us moms will try to find a way to get things to work out in our child's best interest. And I can't tell you what you should do, because I have done things just so I feel better. It is what you can live with until you are able to detach more.</p><p></p><p>There is a great article on this forum (Parent Eneritus) it is always near the top of the list. Read that at least once a day. </p><p></p><p>I dont know your daughter's age, but have you provided access for birth control? Whether or not it fits in to your Christian beliefs, it is still important to protect her from pregnancy. And condoms for STDs. Instead of pills, have her discuss the injection you get once every 3 months or the implant n your arm or an IUD. My daughters would not remember to take a pill. My youngest is now the mom to a 1 year old...and if you think it is hard watching your daughter make poor decisions as a teen,,,imagine a teen with a baby and still not making good decisions. That is something I will update the forum on later.</p><p></p><p>You also need to consider that alcohol or drugs might be involved. If she had a fender bender in your car and did not report it or notify you, she may not have wanted the police involved. </p><p></p><p>Hope you feel better about the situation soon... ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 760719, member: 12511"] I would think twice about agreeing for her to live in your home and use a car in your name while you are not around on a regular basis for days or weeks at a time. That is a recipe for disaster. Just because she might agree to all your rules does not mean she will follow them while you are gone. But, I know that us moms will try to find a way to get things to work out in our child's best interest. And I can't tell you what you should do, because I have done things just so I feel better. It is what you can live with until you are able to detach more. There is a great article on this forum (Parent Eneritus) it is always near the top of the list. Read that at least once a day. I dont know your daughter's age, but have you provided access for birth control? Whether or not it fits in to your Christian beliefs, it is still important to protect her from pregnancy. And condoms for STDs. Instead of pills, have her discuss the injection you get once every 3 months or the implant n your arm or an IUD. My daughters would not remember to take a pill. My youngest is now the mom to a 1 year old...and if you think it is hard watching your daughter make poor decisions as a teen,,,imagine a teen with a baby and still not making good decisions. That is something I will update the forum on later. You also need to consider that alcohol or drugs might be involved. If she had a fender bender in your car and did not report it or notify you, she may not have wanted the police involved. Hope you feel better about the situation soon... ksm [/QUOTE]
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