I've been off for the long (4-day) weekend. So I didn't' see the "challenge", but I'm happy to say Jabber and I DID make a start! Yesterday we spent literally 3-4 hours and worked on our closet and drawers and the guest room (formerly son's room).
From our closet and my dresser, we filled TWO tall kitchen trash bags with clothing we no longer wear. In addition, I turned all my hangers the wrong way round. Next New Year's, anything still turned around the wrong way gets the boot - unless it happens to be a special occasion dress or something that I just haven't had the need for. Even if it doesn't fit and I'm "saving" it for when I lose weight. I'll just buy new clothes. I'm that tired of it all.
In the guest room, we really only did the closet and still ended up with a lawn and leaf size trash bag of trash! It included a comforter and pillow - so that's a bit of an exaggeration - but still a lot and there's so much more to go!
We put a lot of our medieval reenactment clothing in that closet - which is the purpose we intend to use it for. I can't wait to get the rest of that room done! My son's been in another state for over two years and we've barely touched it.
Jabber also made a call to Habitat for Humanity and we're going to make an appointment to have them come and get a lot of stuff from the garage, furniture that we haven't used in ages! I'm excited to see it go!
So...inroads. I will look up the various books and websites you all have mentioned.
Elsi, I have also been one to “save” stuff for my kids/stepkids/future grandkids. It almost never seems to be worth it. Used household items are cheap to buy, and our stuff is just that for the most part—just stuff. Easily replaced.
I agree with this. I've now helped out with dishes and pots and pans, etc. twice. Even with furniture. Never again. Even if he wasn't two states away at some point it's simply not worth the stress to store things you can help buy if you feel you must. A $50 couch from Salvation Army is worth the sanity you get from being able to be in your own home without clutter.
by the way
@Copabanana - I love your kitty's nose! The black being asymmetrical makes it look crooked. LOL She's so sweet!