Hi all, My son is no longer living with my dear husband and I. I finally, FINALLY saw up close what his core beliefs are. For so long I was fooled into thinking that our son truly loves us and needs us. Needed us to take care of him the rest of his life! Boy was I wrong. Around 3-4 weeks ago...son woke up and came into our kitchen to get a cup of coffee. He bumped into one of our dogs (the one he likes) and simply said "move." But then our other dog got in his way too (husbands dog if you will). Son was aggressive and yelled at our dog Rocky to "Move!" My husband told son "Don't yell at my dog." Son went ballistic and yelled profanity at husband and threatened violence against him with me in the middle! Son said you Fing B and told husband he would beat his A! Thankfully husband was in the process of mowing and walked out the front door. I told son that this was it...he had to leave. Son said he didn't have a problem living on the streets again. I told son to get dressed to leave. We drove and I gave him $200...I felt like I had to lure him with money to get him out of our house fast! Tensions were very high!!! Later husband and I took him his things on the streets of our town. Our son believes himself to be somewhat of a messenger from God...sigh. He has seen and heard things that make him believe he has a special message to carry to others. Needless to say, he has a following on the internet and one of his friends who believes he is a "spiritual genius" set up a Go fund me account on his behalf. My son would text me and tell me of what others thought of him. He boasted and was really quite proud of himself for having been given $800 by strangers! Within a week, he was on his way to California. And within just a few days...he wound up in a psychiatric hospital again after using drugs. Nothing new about his story...always ends with him using drugs and winding up in the hospital. But this time...this time I was different. I could see the emotional manipulation he has used on me since he was at least 13! I could see that ultimately he would negatively impact my well being as well as his dads. He would take everything from us! And everyday since he's been in the hospital he asks me to do something for him; call this person, check the mail, go to the store and see how much money I have on my card etc. I have always been his Go to person...but not anymore. Son is incredibly irresponsible...his Mother in law has done most of the care giving over the past 11 years! He has 3 beautiful children that he has not fathered at all or not very well...and it is always about drugs! They seem to call out to him. Speaking of children...his wife shared with me this past Sunday, that she is pregnant again. This makes baby number 5. She has one other with another man already who has nothing to do with the little boy. The new baby daddy has threatened her emotionally and wants nothing to do with this new child either who will be born in November. Our daughter and her husband of 5 years are struggling to have a baby. daughter in law would like our daughter or her brother in California to adopt the baby. I have not told our son but his instincts are amazing! He said this morning when he called.."we all know how my wife likes to have babies with different men and make me the dad." See...in our state all of the children are considered legally our sons since the pregnant mom is still married to our son. It's a complicated situation but our son will have to sign over adoption rights for the new baby. Son will likely get out of this current hospital stay and live on the streets with drugs. I don't know if his wife will be able to find him to sign over rights. As for dear husband and I...we are "living the dream." Life is good and we are at peace now. May God bless you all!