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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 757527" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>RN ...Thank you! </p><p>Truly son does have to figure this out...I'm not helping/enabling anymore. </p><p>I do wonder What in the world the hospital he is currently in is thinking! They have decided to discharge him tomorrow and pay for one nights stay in a hotel. He says he will take homeless people in to shower...sigh. I know it will be about shared drug use. At least that's what I think. His and their business I guess.</p><p>Meanwhile he tells me of a girl he met there who sent him clothes and $80. </p><p>She wants him to come live at her brother's house and work for her husband! She is married and son says, "I think she likes me likes me." Sounds like trouble to me! </p><p></p><p>JMom...it was husband that he said Fing B too and threatened...not me. He's lucky dear husband did not pound him into the floor! It was a very high adrenaline few moments. All I could do was stretch out my hands between them and tell son it was time for him to leave. </p><p></p><p>This weekend we have his 3 children. They are precious. His son, who is 12 now told me of deep seeded resentments he has towards his dad. </p><p>I shared with him the story of my own relationship with my "earthly" bio-dad. My bio-dad was absent from 2yrs of age til around 17 when I met him. I did not like him...he took no responsibility. He was dying a few years ago and I went and visited him. The only thing I asked for was a letter from him. He was capable of writing as he was sitting at a desk while on oxygen. He never wrote me that letter. So disappointed. But I explained to my grandson that it was never my fault...that my bio-dad did not have the capacity to love me well, to provide, to care, to give guidance, direction or wisdom. </p><p>I am blessed that my dear husband has shown our children and now all of our grandchildren these things. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /> </p><p>I pray my grandson will heal over time and come to realize that there are better examples of what a Good father truly is. </p><p>Thank you for your prayers </p><p>Especially for my grandchildren. </p><p>Much love to you all. </p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 757527, member: 3305"] RN ...Thank you! Truly son does have to figure this out...I'm not helping/enabling anymore. I do wonder What in the world the hospital he is currently in is thinking! They have decided to discharge him tomorrow and pay for one nights stay in a hotel. He says he will take homeless people in to shower...sigh. I know it will be about shared drug use. At least that's what I think. His and their business I guess. Meanwhile he tells me of a girl he met there who sent him clothes and $80. She wants him to come live at her brother's house and work for her husband! She is married and son says, "I think she likes me likes me." Sounds like trouble to me! JMom...it was husband that he said Fing B too and threatened...not me. He's lucky dear husband did not pound him into the floor! It was a very high adrenaline few moments. All I could do was stretch out my hands between them and tell son it was time for him to leave. This weekend we have his 3 children. They are precious. His son, who is 12 now told me of deep seeded resentments he has towards his dad. I shared with him the story of my own relationship with my "earthly" bio-dad. My bio-dad was absent from 2yrs of age til around 17 when I met him. I did not like him...he took no responsibility. He was dying a few years ago and I went and visited him. The only thing I asked for was a letter from him. He was capable of writing as he was sitting at a desk while on oxygen. He never wrote me that letter. So disappointed. But I explained to my grandson that it was never my fault...that my bio-dad did not have the capacity to love me well, to provide, to care, to give guidance, direction or wisdom. I am blessed that my dear husband has shown our children and now all of our grandchildren these things. ❤️ I pray my grandson will heal over time and come to realize that there are better examples of what a Good father truly is. Thank you for your prayers Especially for my grandchildren. Much love to you all. LMS [/QUOTE]
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