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Just beginning to accept the reality that I was played
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 745763" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, your daughter is a drug addict and there are sober addicts who dont change. If you KNOW she is sober for sure, which you cant be sure of.</p><p></p><p>The key is to report her if you believe her kids are in danger. Not to punish your daughter but to be a light and hope and refige for your granddaughter. She is still young and one day may need help. </p><p></p><p>You should thank your lucky stars every day that at least your grandson has stability. Why does it hurt you that he is safe and loved? What possible advantage would it be for your grandson to live with your abusive daughter? She really should not have any kids. You know this. He is better off by a longshot. I k ow this hurts to hear and only say it si tou tou can remember that this is a blessing for him, e en though you wish it coyld be different. I get it.</p><p></p><p>Keep your distance. She is not safe. If she is actually clean she could relapse at any time and she has used you and hurt you so much already. You do t deserve this. Dont avvept it.</p><p></p><p>Please take care of you. And feel happy for your grandson. Your 11 year old granddaughter will learn to deal with her mother....she is a pre teen. Maybe she will run off one day and you will get custody. Her story isnt over. Dont imagine her ending to be negative. She remembers your love and is probably afraid of Mom so she cant show her feelings around her. But they are there and she will get older and stronger still.</p><p></p><p>The baby to be should go to the father but she is probably not going to do that. I feel sorry for the baby. But short of fighting her for custody (and Dad would get first priority) you cant help. I remember you saying you wont mess with her because you are afraid of her. Give yourself a pass. If you believe in tje power of prayer, pray. I persomally think prayer helps more than we know.</p><p></p><p>Dont bring Daughter back into your life. You need to stay strong and healthy for yourself and your other loved ones. They need you healthy and alive. Its sad when I hear about dangerous adult kids. But they exist. I dont know of much harder a life lesson than this.</p><p></p><p>Hugs love and light. Be well!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 745763, member: 1550"] Hon, your daughter is a drug addict and there are sober addicts who dont change. If you KNOW she is sober for sure, which you cant be sure of. The key is to report her if you believe her kids are in danger. Not to punish your daughter but to be a light and hope and refige for your granddaughter. She is still young and one day may need help. You should thank your lucky stars every day that at least your grandson has stability. Why does it hurt you that he is safe and loved? What possible advantage would it be for your grandson to live with your abusive daughter? She really should not have any kids. You know this. He is better off by a longshot. I k ow this hurts to hear and only say it si tou tou can remember that this is a blessing for him, e en though you wish it coyld be different. I get it. Keep your distance. She is not safe. If she is actually clean she could relapse at any time and she has used you and hurt you so much already. You do t deserve this. Dont avvept it. Please take care of you. And feel happy for your grandson. Your 11 year old granddaughter will learn to deal with her mother....she is a pre teen. Maybe she will run off one day and you will get custody. Her story isnt over. Dont imagine her ending to be negative. She remembers your love and is probably afraid of Mom so she cant show her feelings around her. But they are there and she will get older and stronger still. The baby to be should go to the father but she is probably not going to do that. I feel sorry for the baby. But short of fighting her for custody (and Dad would get first priority) you cant help. I remember you saying you wont mess with her because you are afraid of her. Give yourself a pass. If you believe in tje power of prayer, pray. I persomally think prayer helps more than we know. Dont bring Daughter back into your life. You need to stay strong and healthy for yourself and your other loved ones. They need you healthy and alive. Its sad when I hear about dangerous adult kids. But they exist. I dont know of much harder a life lesson than this. Hugs love and light. Be well! [/QUOTE]
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