It was very upsetting so this is as good as I can remember it. Not verbatim at all but you will get the gist. A strange phone number from a town in Kay's state came up. I should never have answered but in my defense I was very busy and not really paying that much attention. The call was ill timed and I had not really looked at who called and Kay's number is blocked. it was from a neighbors phone, Kay said, after blasting me for blocking her. But it was Kay. That froze me in my tracks. k- Hi, Mother (sarcastic on the word mother). Bet you are surprised. I know you hate your loser and blocked me like I don't exist. Me: (trying not to stammer) Oh! Hi! How are you doing? K- Cut the nice question @#$&. You don't care. We are way behind in our rent and owe for utilities but you won't help. You are a @#$&. You won't help, right? Me; Kay, we can't. help, dear. I am sorry you fell behind. What about Jaden.... K-i#$&[email protected] (Voice laced with fury now) Jaden is fine. I am going to teach him not to be a shill like all of you. Just let me talk and get this out. Since you are SO SORRY (major rage and sarcasm) Me i wont listen to abuse. (But it was weak. I was in shock) K--(ignoring me) You tried to teach me to listen to authority, like Big Pharma, doctors, teachers...and to be a brainwashed shill like you. I am going to teach Jaden to think for himself and listen to his mom and dad and not the stupid academics. You and dad are so stupid to vote. All politicians are part of the this plot to control our minds! You are idiot sheeples and believe anything an authority figure says! Not me or Lee or Jaden! We think for ourselves!!!! Me- kay, stop..... K--The reason I have problems is because you vaccinated me. And your darling daughter and son have problems too all due to stupid brainwashing and vaccinations. Jaden is being taught the truth. You lied to me. Santa Claus is a huge lie. It traumatized me that you lied to me and told me Santa was real. You should NEVER lie to kids. Me-- Kay, I really have nothing to say about this but I love and.miss you. Kay--(ugly laughter) You @#$& sheeple. You don't love ANYONE. You are a NARCISSISTIC @#$&. I read about narcicists! Dad is one too! You ruined me! (I hang up and block this number, sit down and am off track. My husband sees me and asks who I was talking to.) We drop the days plans and go out to have coffee and talk. Kay is sicker than ever. We discuss how pot is legal all over now yet how we are told by so many people who are medical and feel that pot ruins the brain with overuse and triggers mental illness too. And Kratom is dangerous. We don't know if the crazy two decades of daily pot plus other enhancers caused this or what, but it didn't help. Kay thinks more crazily than she did when young before two decades of pot. We decided to go to our retreat this weekend and to not answer any calls that are not identifiable. I need to be more mindful, busy or not, of the phone. This call made me see all over again why we can't talk to Kay unless she gets help. The scary part is that we know that she really thinks how she talks. Poor Jaden, but nothing she is doing is illegal. God bless and I wish you a peaceful weekend.