toughlovin
Well-Known Member
Hi Everyone,
I am sure there are some of you who have no idea about me since I have not been on here for a long while. I used to come here a lot and then the app for my phone stopped working and I rarely use the computer. I just checked and the app is back so I may try that again.
Anyway I have a son who thankfully is still alive....we have been through the wringer with him for years.
I can't remember where we were when I was last here. But he moved back here from out of state, lived with us for a year and things got bad. We finally got him a place to live because it was so hard on us to have him living here. Things went really down hill and he started using heroin. He did have a car and he was working delivering pizza. He was talking to us about getting treatment and I found a place an hour from us that really does dual diagnosis treatment. So he was agreeing to go to that and after quitting his job decided to get high "one last time". He crashed and totaled the car. I am incredibly thankful that it was a one car accident and no one else was hurt. He was arrested, spent two weeks in jail until we could get him accepted into treatment. I do like this place, their model is dfferent than other programs.
He spent 3 months in residential and is now living in an apartment and in their outpatient program.
However he is currently relapsed....he says he is getting back on track but has rescinded all releases so the program can't talk to us. I think he is totally playing us.... and at this point I am just backing off until iI hear that he has resigned the releases. The whole thing is so sad and tiresome. He makes progress and then things he has it all figured out and can do it on his own... and he never can. My hope is that he will get the help he needs from them. I am thankful they are there for support so I can step back.
I am doing pretty well really. I am living and enjoying my life and have really got that this is all out of my control.
TL
I am sure there are some of you who have no idea about me since I have not been on here for a long while. I used to come here a lot and then the app for my phone stopped working and I rarely use the computer. I just checked and the app is back so I may try that again.
Anyway I have a son who thankfully is still alive....we have been through the wringer with him for years.
I can't remember where we were when I was last here. But he moved back here from out of state, lived with us for a year and things got bad. We finally got him a place to live because it was so hard on us to have him living here. Things went really down hill and he started using heroin. He did have a car and he was working delivering pizza. He was talking to us about getting treatment and I found a place an hour from us that really does dual diagnosis treatment. So he was agreeing to go to that and after quitting his job decided to get high "one last time". He crashed and totaled the car. I am incredibly thankful that it was a one car accident and no one else was hurt. He was arrested, spent two weeks in jail until we could get him accepted into treatment. I do like this place, their model is dfferent than other programs.
He spent 3 months in residential and is now living in an apartment and in their outpatient program.
However he is currently relapsed....he says he is getting back on track but has rescinded all releases so the program can't talk to us. I think he is totally playing us.... and at this point I am just backing off until iI hear that he has resigned the releases. The whole thing is so sad and tiresome. He makes progress and then things he has it all figured out and can do it on his own... and he never can. My hope is that he will get the help he needs from them. I am thankful they are there for support so I can step back.
I am doing pretty well really. I am living and enjoying my life and have really got that this is all out of my control.
TL