tiredalways
New Member
Hello, 8 tears ago my brother and sister in law got into trouble with the law. I stepped in with my husband and help their three kids that was taken into foster care. My husband and I took over their foster care and thought it would only be for 6 months. What could be worse than losing your kids. We did not have any kids of our own. Well 8 years later we have custody of them, their father was killed in a motorcycle accident and the kids have not seen their mother since the funeral 6 years ago. The kids are very disrespectful, one has ADHD, the 15 year old has started expriementing with drugs. The 18 year old is pregnant with twins. I'm lost and do not what to do. I'm tired and cannot do this anymore. THe 11 year old and 15 year old boys are very verbally abusive and go on rampages when the do not get thier way. The 18 year old lies, steals and does nothing to help. All three children think the world owes them everything and they do not have to listen to anything any family member says. My parents and the kids uncles do not do anything to help, if anyting they just enable the kids. HELP HELP. What am I to do. I'm seriously thinking about turing custody over to the state or to another family member, I now in my heart that this is not best for the kids, I feell I cannot take anymore. ANY ADVISE PLEASE,