My son called from jail last night. He was arrested for aggravated assault on his girlfriend. He wanted to move back to my house. I told him no. They threw out all of his clothes plus his wallet with his id and social security. I did not offer to help him replace any of this stuff. I have my hands full taking care of my mother and my own health concerns. I did reach out to his counselor to give him son's phone number. That is all I was willing to do. I feel like crap. I heard all of the usual garbage about how I have given up on him, don't love him, won't help him and that none of this is his fault. My only response was he needed to figure out his life my helping him did not work out for either one of us. I know in my heart of hearts that I did the right thing. My stomach is in knots and I am getting a migraine. It sucks rocks when you can't help your child for fear of getting sucked back into the depths of hell.