My 33 year old son lives home with us. He has not been formally diagnosed because he refuses to see a doctor. He knows he has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and depression but has been isolated with no friends for at least 8 years now. He pushes everyone out of his life. He refuses medications and is so miserable and has recently started to blame me for not helping him. He won't take my advice to be diagnosed. He works for my husband his father during the day and still functions well, eats and works out after work. He tells me he is going to kill himself and doesn't want to be here anymore. He has nothing to live for. He also is mad at me for not fixing it. He hates our home but refuses to get out on his own knowing he will be alone. My husband and I are beside ourselves how to help him. This is a small blipp of the whole story but a start.