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<blockquote data-quote="Dmb0145" data-source="post: 731316" data-attributes="member: 22987"><p>Thank you so much for the reply which just brought tears to my eyes. Reading your reply feels like we are one of the same person, unfortunately who lived and experienced the same exact life with our moms. However, it also makes me cry because I feel I'm not alone during this very difficult time. She has only been gone 3 months so it's all so fresh, probate everything not them I'm included in any of that. My brother and his wife are just like my mother and I even his wife took part in the behavior all these years. My own mother was more my sister in laws mother than she was ever mine. Always putting me down the two of them, talking behind my back. I have since tried moving on and about every 3 weeks or so I get a very "vague" update from my brother on the probate issue. I wish he would just go away and leave me alone, it's like he wants to try and continue and take over where my mother left off in terms of the abusive behavior. I'm just hoping the copy of the will should be mailed to me soon so I can sign off/not contest anything and move on and be left alone. Thank god I have an amazing husband, mother and father in law who I feel are my real parents and my dad who loved me as well as my other brother who passed (both) just 3 years ago of cancer as well truly loved me and they would be rolling over in their graves. It's so embarrassing because people must think I was one awful person of a daughter. The wake/funeral were the worst. I had my brothers friends/in laws looking at me like I was the devil. It's just amazing that me having a 50 year relationship with my mother minus the last 4 months of her life apparently was all so irrelevant. I'm still waiting to get her letter from the grave I'm sure from my brother and I dread that day as well. One good thing I guess is I no longer have to be subjected to her put downs or insults no more but the pain is still unimaginable all the same. Love, health , peace and light to you as well. I am so thankful I found this forum today. It certainly has shed light on the fact that I am not alone <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dmb0145, post: 731316, member: 22987"] Thank you so much for the reply which just brought tears to my eyes. Reading your reply feels like we are one of the same person, unfortunately who lived and experienced the same exact life with our moms. However, it also makes me cry because I feel I'm not alone during this very difficult time. She has only been gone 3 months so it's all so fresh, probate everything not them I'm included in any of that. My brother and his wife are just like my mother and I even his wife took part in the behavior all these years. My own mother was more my sister in laws mother than she was ever mine. Always putting me down the two of them, talking behind my back. I have since tried moving on and about every 3 weeks or so I get a very "vague" update from my brother on the probate issue. I wish he would just go away and leave me alone, it's like he wants to try and continue and take over where my mother left off in terms of the abusive behavior. I'm just hoping the copy of the will should be mailed to me soon so I can sign off/not contest anything and move on and be left alone. Thank god I have an amazing husband, mother and father in law who I feel are my real parents and my dad who loved me as well as my other brother who passed (both) just 3 years ago of cancer as well truly loved me and they would be rolling over in their graves. It's so embarrassing because people must think I was one awful person of a daughter. The wake/funeral were the worst. I had my brothers friends/in laws looking at me like I was the devil. It's just amazing that me having a 50 year relationship with my mother minus the last 4 months of her life apparently was all so irrelevant. I'm still waiting to get her letter from the grave I'm sure from my brother and I dread that day as well. One good thing I guess is I no longer have to be subjected to her put downs or insults no more but the pain is still unimaginable all the same. Love, health , peace and light to you as well. I am so thankful I found this forum today. It certainly has shed light on the fact that I am not alone :) [/QUOTE]
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