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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 760803" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Sorry you find yourself here but sometimes the beginning of our healing is coming out of isolation. It allows us to "hear" ourselves and process the insanity as we write and discuss what's in our hearts. Sharing with those of us who understand makes us feel less abnormal.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, none of us "graduate" from this forum, although there are a few success stories it's really a process of life that "we" have to learn to journey while being jabbed and poked along the way by the hurts and pains of our adult "lost" children.</p><p></p><p>The key to unlocking the door to your healing will be when you can accept the situation for better or worst and not feel so devistated when things go wrong (as they usually do). Detaching with love is difficult and has a lot of back and forth movements. You are not bad because you can't get this the first time around. Be loving to yourself and nurturing in your own thoughts. We tend to beat ourselves up in self-talk. Should have, could have, would haves...</p><p></p><p>Keeping you in my prayers...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 760803, member: 23405"] Sorry you find yourself here but sometimes the beginning of our healing is coming out of isolation. It allows us to "hear" ourselves and process the insanity as we write and discuss what's in our hearts. Sharing with those of us who understand makes us feel less abnormal. Unfortunately, none of us "graduate" from this forum, although there are a few success stories it's really a process of life that "we" have to learn to journey while being jabbed and poked along the way by the hurts and pains of our adult "lost" children. The key to unlocking the door to your healing will be when you can accept the situation for better or worst and not feel so devistated when things go wrong (as they usually do). Detaching with love is difficult and has a lot of back and forth movements. You are not bad because you can't get this the first time around. Be loving to yourself and nurturing in your own thoughts. We tend to beat ourselves up in self-talk. Should have, could have, would haves... Keeping you in my prayers... [/QUOTE]
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