Our 28yo adopted son, J, is really scaring me. To summarize again, he lives in Denver. He is most likely Bipolar, although we don't know for sure. He has been very hostile and malicious in his texts to us for almost a year and refuses to seek help. He has been especially angry at us because we refused to co-sign a loan for a car. This morning, after three weeks of not contacting him, I sent him a text. He texted back, saying he got kicked off of a construction site the other day. He said that he thought about how he could get her gun and kill her. He thought about how he would love to cut her throat, have sex with her dead body or while she was choking to death, etc. etc. I am so scared for him. I texted him and said, "Do you not see how sick that is, to have those kinds of thoughts? Please, please get some help, either there or here. We will help you get some help." This is a new low for him, and I am really frightened that he will do something violent. We don't know where he is in Denver. He has not responded to the texts I sent just now. Other than pray, I don't know what to do. Has anyone else dealt with this sort of violent remarks?