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<blockquote data-quote="ColleenB" data-source="post: 681207" data-attributes="member: 19887"><p>So tonight I find out son has been using still, cocaine and alcohol plus weed. </p><p></p><p>He is ashamed and very down. We are to fly out in the morning.... What kind of parent leaves their kid like this? He said he wants us to go, and has promised me he will try an NA meeting. </p><p></p><p>I feel so bad. </p><p></p><p>He is so down on himself, and feels he has ruined our trip now. He has promised to check in with us everyday. And his brother is aware of the situation. I feel bad leaving the 18 year old with this. They are good friends, and I know younger son will watch out for his brother. But it's not fair. </p><p></p><p>Drugs are just horrible, I feel so bad for all the people who have been hurt by this life. </p><p></p><p>My son is a good person. He isn't rude to us, he doesn't steal, he just hates himself. It breaks my heart. He has so much going for him. He feels " stuck" and that he will never feel happy. </p><p></p><p>He doesn't have classes this week, so no pressure on him. Hoping he can rest and maybe a break from us will be good for him too? </p><p></p><p>I don't know.... I'm not sure I can make myself get on the plane.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ColleenB, post: 681207, member: 19887"] So tonight I find out son has been using still, cocaine and alcohol plus weed. He is ashamed and very down. We are to fly out in the morning.... What kind of parent leaves their kid like this? He said he wants us to go, and has promised me he will try an NA meeting. I feel so bad. He is so down on himself, and feels he has ruined our trip now. He has promised to check in with us everyday. And his brother is aware of the situation. I feel bad leaving the 18 year old with this. They are good friends, and I know younger son will watch out for his brother. But it's not fair. Drugs are just horrible, I feel so bad for all the people who have been hurt by this life. My son is a good person. He isn't rude to us, he doesn't steal, he just hates himself. It breaks my heart. He has so much going for him. He feels " stuck" and that he will never feel happy. He doesn't have classes this week, so no pressure on him. Hoping he can rest and maybe a break from us will be good for him too? I don't know.... I'm not sure I can make myself get on the plane..... [/QUOTE]
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