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<blockquote data-quote="MissWinter" data-source="post: 721806" data-attributes="member: 22307"><p>THANK YOU Susiestar. That is so good the DV centre were helpful for you. There isn't anything like that where I live , only a phone line which isnt the same as seeing the same person regularly. The phone line is trauma / DV informed and they are amazing, so at least I have that . The face to face therapists I have seen have been shockingly bad but will keep searching. I've given my son a month to move out and if he isn't out by then I'm going to the police, courts, whoever it takes. He smokes marijuana constantly in my house which is against my wishes, his bail conditions, (and illegal where I am) - he will be back to jail for sure <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> . Its hard to face doing that but its really the only option and his actions have led to it. Maybe I am being too "nice" giving him a month. I think its paralysing sometimes all the emotions guilt and fear. I'm not even staying at home- I am at my parents because I cant stand it there. He demands money , lots of it and when I say no its getting scarier his aggression. I feel so dumb to be honest because even though I was cautious and didn't really fully believe his promises and charming act, part of me (wishful thinking) did get sucked in and wanted to believe so much he was a changed man after the wake up call of jail. Thanks again for understanding and kind wise words.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MissWinter, post: 721806, member: 22307"] THANK YOU Susiestar. That is so good the DV centre were helpful for you. There isn't anything like that where I live , only a phone line which isnt the same as seeing the same person regularly. The phone line is trauma / DV informed and they are amazing, so at least I have that . The face to face therapists I have seen have been shockingly bad but will keep searching. I've given my son a month to move out and if he isn't out by then I'm going to the police, courts, whoever it takes. He smokes marijuana constantly in my house which is against my wishes, his bail conditions, (and illegal where I am) - he will be back to jail for sure :( . Its hard to face doing that but its really the only option and his actions have led to it. Maybe I am being too "nice" giving him a month. I think its paralysing sometimes all the emotions guilt and fear. I'm not even staying at home- I am at my parents because I cant stand it there. He demands money , lots of it and when I say no its getting scarier his aggression. I feel so dumb to be honest because even though I was cautious and didn't really fully believe his promises and charming act, part of me (wishful thinking) did get sucked in and wanted to believe so much he was a changed man after the wake up call of jail. Thanks again for understanding and kind wise words. [/QUOTE]
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