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<blockquote data-quote="Acacia" data-source="post: 759234" data-attributes="member: 19832"><p>Oh, how I can relate to this, and like you I haven't posted for a while because haven't changed for the better. My daughter cut me out of her life 3 years ago, so I have not seen her or my two grandchildren since then. I heard through the other grandparents that my daughter told my granddaughter that I don't care about her. Ouch. It hurts, but like you whenever I think about reaching out, I remember how unkind and abusive my adult daughter was to me, and how she expected me to rescue her financially. It triggers my PTSD. </p><p></p><p>It is especially sad during the holidays, but I will not have a relationship with anyone, even family, who treat me badly. As they say in program, "I didn't cause it, I can't control it, and I can't cure it." You are taking care of yourself, and that is a good thing. Be gentle with yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Acacia, post: 759234, member: 19832"] Oh, how I can relate to this, and like you I haven't posted for a while because haven't changed for the better. My daughter cut me out of her life 3 years ago, so I have not seen her or my two grandchildren since then. I heard through the other grandparents that my daughter told my granddaughter that I don't care about her. Ouch. It hurts, but like you whenever I think about reaching out, I remember how unkind and abusive my adult daughter was to me, and how she expected me to rescue her financially. It triggers my PTSD. It is especially sad during the holidays, but I will not have a relationship with anyone, even family, who treat me badly. As they say in program, "I didn't cause it, I can't control it, and I can't cure it." You are taking care of yourself, and that is a good thing. Be gentle with yourself. [/QUOTE]
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