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Therapist: the pain of FOO will last forever...in some degree
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 744566" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Swot. Did you ever consider this: that your sibs loved you but that because they are each so damaged that they don't know how to love in a way that feels right or enough...</p><p></p><p>And because you were always healthier than they were you knew intuitively what love should feel like...knew instinctively that what your foo could give was not enough..</p><p></p><p>And searched and searched for help and never gave up until you were able to build a family where you could give and receive love like you needed. Healthy, real love.</p><p></p><p>Did you ever think that maybe your family was not enough because they were so damaged and you weren't? And that this is the real kernel of truth here...</p><p></p><p>But that you were the powerful one and the whole one was too scary to you (after all you were a baby)...so you accepted their labeling...(false) but that everybody in their deepest selves knows the real truth... That you are the together one. And that you were a difficult baby only because you were in distress, you knew what you needed and knew you were not getting it...and you protested....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 744566, member: 18958"] Swot. Did you ever consider this: that your sibs loved you but that because they are each so damaged that they don't know how to love in a way that feels right or enough... And because you were always healthier than they were you knew intuitively what love should feel like...knew instinctively that what your foo could give was not enough.. And searched and searched for help and never gave up until you were able to build a family where you could give and receive love like you needed. Healthy, real love. Did you ever think that maybe your family was not enough because they were so damaged and you weren't? And that this is the real kernel of truth here... But that you were the powerful one and the whole one was too scary to you (after all you were a baby)...so you accepted their labeling...(false) but that everybody in their deepest selves knows the real truth... That you are the together one. And that you were a difficult baby only because you were in distress, you knew what you needed and knew you were not getting it...and you protested.... [/QUOTE]
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