tryingtobestrong
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Been very depressed lately. Just wondering how everyone gets through this. It feels like there is no hope. We have tried pulling back and don't help financially with rent, etc. He is on my healthcare plan for a few more months than that is his responsibility.
My son is thinking of getting a new job... with that comes no FMLA because he would have to be there one year before that kicks in. He is looking for more money. He does do well for his company but right now the company is doing a wage cut across the board. However, if he stopped smoking weed like he said and would not drink all the booze he would have money.
Switching jobs would add so much more stress. I researched the company and they have social gatherings and have a cocktail logo by it, etc. Also states that must be flexible because job description could change.... He hates to do cold calls and that is what I see on the reviews... His position he is applying for isn't doing cold calls but if he has to be flexible to change....who knows.
Just on edge.. knowing in my heart he lies and says he is going to meetings but then I see calls to the liquor store.
Another issue is he only calls us when there is an issue with the insurance. When I see his name on my phone, I want to vomit. A call from my son never is good. When will that fear go away?
I am just so down. My counselor told me to change. Between my marriage not being the best, my son and working for our family business and struggling to get help, etc. the stress is so bad.
sorry for rambling.
We are to go visit our son in a few months.... I dread it.
My son is thinking of getting a new job... with that comes no FMLA because he would have to be there one year before that kicks in. He is looking for more money. He does do well for his company but right now the company is doing a wage cut across the board. However, if he stopped smoking weed like he said and would not drink all the booze he would have money.
Switching jobs would add so much more stress. I researched the company and they have social gatherings and have a cocktail logo by it, etc. Also states that must be flexible because job description could change.... He hates to do cold calls and that is what I see on the reviews... His position he is applying for isn't doing cold calls but if he has to be flexible to change....who knows.
Just on edge.. knowing in my heart he lies and says he is going to meetings but then I see calls to the liquor store.
Another issue is he only calls us when there is an issue with the insurance. When I see his name on my phone, I want to vomit. A call from my son never is good. When will that fear go away?
I am just so down. My counselor told me to change. Between my marriage not being the best, my son and working for our family business and struggling to get help, etc. the stress is so bad.
sorry for rambling.
We are to go visit our son in a few months.... I dread it.