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<blockquote data-quote="Kimsco" data-source="post: 762042" data-attributes="member: 28780"><p>Thank you for sharing. All I can do is pray. Last I heard (and saw a very pregnant her in a picture) is she is due in a few weeks, and homeless. I am hoping she went to a shelter where maybe they can guide her. No ONE can or are willing to take her in. I’d have to quit working just to keep an I on her- which I can’t do. We do not have a relationship, I went several months without speaking to her… again. Sadly you are right, life is more peaceful without the craziness and I feel like I can get a grip. However it doesn’t lessen the worry, fear, guilt and now the torture of knowing my grandson is coming and that’s going to be a WHOLE other situation. EVEN if she didn’t want or couldn’t take care of baby there is no way we can take in a baby and raise it- bringing guilt to yet another level. I have to keep telling myself she’s Gods child, and I cannot allow her problem/ situation to become mine. I just think especially as a parent, we are programmed that Its our job - and is expected- to always take care of our children, regardless of age, or scenario, to fix their problems, never turn your back and always support them….and because I don’t, I feel like the worst, most selfish person in the world. Sucks. That’s where I still need work on, hopefully in time it will dissipate. Thank you again <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="💞" title="Revolving hearts :revolving_hearts:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f49e.png" data-shortname=":revolving_hearts:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kimsco, post: 762042, member: 28780"] Thank you for sharing. All I can do is pray. Last I heard (and saw a very pregnant her in a picture) is she is due in a few weeks, and homeless. I am hoping she went to a shelter where maybe they can guide her. No ONE can or are willing to take her in. I’d have to quit working just to keep an I on her- which I can’t do. We do not have a relationship, I went several months without speaking to her… again. Sadly you are right, life is more peaceful without the craziness and I feel like I can get a grip. However it doesn’t lessen the worry, fear, guilt and now the torture of knowing my grandson is coming and that’s going to be a WHOLE other situation. EVEN if she didn’t want or couldn’t take care of baby there is no way we can take in a baby and raise it- bringing guilt to yet another level. I have to keep telling myself she’s Gods child, and I cannot allow her problem/ situation to become mine. I just think especially as a parent, we are programmed that Its our job - and is expected- to always take care of our children, regardless of age, or scenario, to fix their problems, never turn your back and always support them….and because I don’t, I feel like the worst, most selfish person in the world. Sucks. That’s where I still need work on, hopefully in time it will dissipate. Thank you again 💞 [/QUOTE]
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