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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 762047" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Hello. Welcome. We just went through something atrocious /egregious with our 34 year old daughter. The damn broke. We reached a point that we realized we can’t do this anymore. She gets gov assistance and any communication or help from us is extraordinarily minimum. Still picking up the real life pieces of the damage caused. A huge mess. Of which she is totally responsible, yet assumes zero responsibility. And shows no remorse. Never grateful. Never learns. Makes little and mostly NO effort. Zero empathy. A no win situation. Yet, I have moments I try to look back and wonder went went wrong.</p><p></p><p>We hope she starts to take some responsibility fir her actions. But she continues to text nasty notes to us blaming us fir all her problems…poor choices…everything. Even those xxxx texts in and of themselves are horribly poor choices. It’s all disturbing.</p><p></p><p>Counseling helps. </p><p></p><p>We also went to a few real life Families Anonymous meetings. Very helpful. They are 40 minutes away using a difficult expressway. So, we might switch to on line. Meanwhile, I have their literature and often refer to it.</p><p></p><p>I suppose I’m not fully there yet…but I’m finding my strength , happiness, ability to cope ….all of it….and it feels GOOD.</p><p></p><p>Check out FA or a group like it.</p><p></p><p>Blessings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 762047, member: 4152"] Hello. Welcome. We just went through something atrocious /egregious with our 34 year old daughter. The damn broke. We reached a point that we realized we can’t do this anymore. She gets gov assistance and any communication or help from us is extraordinarily minimum. Still picking up the real life pieces of the damage caused. A huge mess. Of which she is totally responsible, yet assumes zero responsibility. And shows no remorse. Never grateful. Never learns. Makes little and mostly NO effort. Zero empathy. A no win situation. Yet, I have moments I try to look back and wonder went went wrong. We hope she starts to take some responsibility fir her actions. But she continues to text nasty notes to us blaming us fir all her problems…poor choices…everything. Even those xxxx texts in and of themselves are horribly poor choices. It’s all disturbing. Counseling helps. We also went to a few real life Families Anonymous meetings. Very helpful. They are 40 minutes away using a difficult expressway. So, we might switch to on line. Meanwhile, I have their literature and often refer to it. I suppose I’m not fully there yet…but I’m finding my strength , happiness, ability to cope ….all of it….and it feels GOOD. Check out FA or a group like it. Blessings. [/QUOTE]
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