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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 737681" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The mother is almost always the cause of an inability to attach as an adult. The father is also often a factor. If you have problems attaching to other people and you were not adopted, the fingers point in only two places. Mother and father. They let you down. It is not your fault. You were infants, toddlers and.minor children. Their job was to love you like most parents do. That they abused or neglected you set the stage for lifeling problems. Dont blame yourself.</p><p></p><p>My mother told me "When I was pregnant I was not excited. I felt nothing. When they first put you in my arms in the hospital, I felt nothing." Although obviously true, did she have to SAY it?</p><p></p><p>To my sister she said "If it had been legal, you would have been an abortion." Though obviously true, did she have to SAY that?</p><p></p><p>Does this sound familiar to any of you who had toxic parents?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 737681, member: 1550"] The mother is almost always the cause of an inability to attach as an adult. The father is also often a factor. If you have problems attaching to other people and you were not adopted, the fingers point in only two places. Mother and father. They let you down. It is not your fault. You were infants, toddlers and.minor children. Their job was to love you like most parents do. That they abused or neglected you set the stage for lifeling problems. Dont blame yourself. My mother told me "When I was pregnant I was not excited. I felt nothing. When they first put you in my arms in the hospital, I felt nothing." Although obviously true, did she have to SAY it? To my sister she said "If it had been legal, you would have been an abortion." Though obviously true, did she have to SAY that? Does this sound familiar to any of you who had toxic parents? [/QUOTE]
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