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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 759460" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>It hurts more because when you see how well they CAN do you cannot believe they just won't do it!!</p><p></p><p>It's so very very frustrating and no one I mean no one gets it unless they've gone through it!!</p><p></p><p>If you can try to look at the bigger picture it may help you. This is his journey and you are along for the ride. He is an individual and agree with Copa that he is extremely stubborn. My son was also and unbelievably so. It was like he did not care what happened to him. I could not believe it. We did not raise him like that! His older two brothers were not like that!! Who was he?</p><p></p><p>I will say that now he is that cautious person again thank God. He does care about himself and what happens to him and in his life and his future.</p><p></p><p>I thank GOD every day that I found this site to guide me because I was lost. If I had not toughened up he probably would still be druggin or dead. My therapist helped also but hearing from other moms here was key. I knew they all loved their sons too!</p><p></p><p>Yesterday he was cleaning off his glasses with canned air. I cringed. Why? Because at one point he was in a hotel room snorting it to get high. When I heard that he was doing that I was numb. I don't know if he even remembers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 759460, member: 15032"] It hurts more because when you see how well they CAN do you cannot believe they just won't do it!! It's so very very frustrating and no one I mean no one gets it unless they've gone through it!! If you can try to look at the bigger picture it may help you. This is his journey and you are along for the ride. He is an individual and agree with Copa that he is extremely stubborn. My son was also and unbelievably so. It was like he did not care what happened to him. I could not believe it. We did not raise him like that! His older two brothers were not like that!! Who was he? I will say that now he is that cautious person again thank God. He does care about himself and what happens to him and in his life and his future. I thank GOD every day that I found this site to guide me because I was lost. If I had not toughened up he probably would still be druggin or dead. My therapist helped also but hearing from other moms here was key. I knew they all loved their sons too! Yesterday he was cleaning off his glasses with canned air. I cringed. Why? Because at one point he was in a hotel room snorting it to get high. When I heard that he was doing that I was numb. I don't know if he even remembers. [/QUOTE]
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