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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 759461" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I answered you in detail on another of your threads, dear grieving mom. We have been there. I recommend.not driving, not texting, although we used to.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately all the groveling we did to Kay strangely made her feel powerful. She liked it. And it did not do anything to get her home or even to get us a call. She would say "If I wanted to be with you or talk to you I would have. Leave me alone!" She also blamed us for whatever she was upset about even if we were not part of it. "You two never taught me how to deal with stress so how do you expect me to do it???" This was sort of right. We rescued her. But we loved her so. It was such a hateful thing to say to us.</p><p></p><p>We learned to let her decide when to come back and we went to NarSnon and therapy to learn how to live a good life even while Kay chose not to.</p><p></p><p>Sending hugs and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 759461, member: 23706"] I answered you in detail on another of your threads, dear grieving mom. We have been there. I recommend.not driving, not texting, although we used to. Unfortunately all the groveling we did to Kay strangely made her feel powerful. She liked it. And it did not do anything to get her home or even to get us a call. She would say "If I wanted to be with you or talk to you I would have. Leave me alone!" She also blamed us for whatever she was upset about even if we were not part of it. "You two never taught me how to deal with stress so how do you expect me to do it???" This was sort of right. We rescued her. But we loved her so. It was such a hateful thing to say to us. We learned to let her decide when to come back and we went to NarSnon and therapy to learn how to live a good life even while Kay chose not to. Sending hugs and love. [/QUOTE]
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