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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 759808" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am commenting on your title, Miracle, <u>Unconditional Love or Detachment.</u></p><p></p><p></p><p>Actually, as I think about it, I think the two are not necessarily in opposition. I think if we detach we do have the possibility of loving them unconditionally. We hold them in our hearts, profoundly without limit, and we turn them over to G-d. </p><p></p><p>It is when we enable that we set "conditions." (I think I need to legally change my name and call myself that. Conditions.) To them it feels like we are withholding our love, unless they do as we want. They feel that resistance is autonomy and freedom. When we pull back, and there is no resistance, that unhealthy power play has no place to feed in us or in them. They are left 100 percent in them, and we are 100 percent in us.</p><p></p><p>I think this is where unconditional love flourishes. I am going to go and copy something by Ram Dass that appeared today in my email, which helped me better understand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 759808, member: 18958"] I am commenting on your title, Miracle, [U]Unconditional Love or Detachment.[/U] Actually, as I think about it, I think the two are not necessarily in opposition. I think if we detach we do have the possibility of loving them unconditionally. We hold them in our hearts, profoundly without limit, and we turn them over to G-d. It is when we enable that we set "conditions." (I think I need to legally change my name and call myself that. Conditions.) To them it feels like we are withholding our love, unless they do as we want. They feel that resistance is autonomy and freedom. When we pull back, and there is no resistance, that unhealthy power play has no place to feed in us or in them. They are left 100 percent in them, and we are 100 percent in us. I think this is where unconditional love flourishes. I am going to go and copy something by Ram Dass that appeared today in my email, which helped me better understand. [/QUOTE]
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