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<blockquote data-quote="Waitingforamiracle" data-source="post: 761511" data-attributes="member: 25449"><p>Hi everyone and I so hope you are finding some peace and happiness this Christmas.</p><p>My son has been asking me for money on and off since September (see "threatening email" post from 3 months back.)</p><p>I know it's really hard for him to keep going in the big city with rent to pay and has recently (as far as I can ascertain) split up with his girlfriend. I have sent him a lot, but at Christmas I had a bad feeling and was starting to stress out, I couldn't enjoy Christmas Eve as I was worrying about my son and how he might be feeling. I discussed it with my husband and we decided it was best to leave it be, after all we had already sent him money just the week or two before.</p><p>But I felt bad...I have some money, I have my own in my bank account, though we always discuss big expenditure beforehand. I sent son $500 and immediately felt so much better.... but I couldn't bring myself to tell husband as it was Christmas Day and I didn't want an argument...now I have confessed and he is angry. I know we were discussing a 'united front' and how important it is, he feels I have betrayed him, and I guess he is right. How to mend things!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Waitingforamiracle, post: 761511, member: 25449"] Hi everyone and I so hope you are finding some peace and happiness this Christmas. My son has been asking me for money on and off since September (see "threatening email" post from 3 months back.) I know it's really hard for him to keep going in the big city with rent to pay and has recently (as far as I can ascertain) split up with his girlfriend. I have sent him a lot, but at Christmas I had a bad feeling and was starting to stress out, I couldn't enjoy Christmas Eve as I was worrying about my son and how he might be feeling. I discussed it with my husband and we decided it was best to leave it be, after all we had already sent him money just the week or two before. But I felt bad...I have some money, I have my own in my bank account, though we always discuss big expenditure beforehand. I sent son $500 and immediately felt so much better.... but I couldn't bring myself to tell husband as it was Christmas Day and I didn't want an argument...now I have confessed and he is angry. I know we were discussing a 'united front' and how important it is, he feels I have betrayed him, and I guess he is right. How to mend things! [/QUOTE]
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