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<blockquote data-quote="cocomad" data-source="post: 761516" data-attributes="member: 28139"><p>Hi,</p><p> It is really hard to not solve problems for your kids when they are struggling. It's even sometimes harder to discuss your feelings, emotions and solutions about your struggling one, with your husband! I hear you about a united front but.... guilt and stressed out we sometimes cave in & make an offering to solve financially. As painful as this is to watch and listen to our loved ones ...we can't solve their problems. I have may addicts in my life .....my sister (56) who has been rescued and enabled can hardly make any decisions for herself. She is a nurse practitioner. My parents have raised her kids, helped dissolve her marriage, provided employment. I love her dearly but she had her wings clipped from too much involvement. The only way to learn & live a full life is to get out there and participate. We all have different paths , some rocky and steep. </p><p>Good thing you came clean.... he will cool off! Take good care of yourself and have self compassion. It's hard to be a mother ( for life)! </p><p>Wishing you some peace and comfort this last week of the year. </p><p>Sheila</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cocomad, post: 761516, member: 28139"] Hi, It is really hard to not solve problems for your kids when they are struggling. It's even sometimes harder to discuss your feelings, emotions and solutions about your struggling one, with your husband! I hear you about a united front but.... guilt and stressed out we sometimes cave in & make an offering to solve financially. As painful as this is to watch and listen to our loved ones ...we can't solve their problems. I have may addicts in my life .....my sister (56) who has been rescued and enabled can hardly make any decisions for herself. She is a nurse practitioner. My parents have raised her kids, helped dissolve her marriage, provided employment. I love her dearly but she had her wings clipped from too much involvement. The only way to learn & live a full life is to get out there and participate. We all have different paths , some rocky and steep. Good thing you came clean.... he will cool off! Take good care of yourself and have self compassion. It's hard to be a mother ( for life)! Wishing you some peace and comfort this last week of the year. Sheila [/QUOTE]
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