Update... I took advice from many and it worked


Thank everyone who took the time to share on my post searching for opinions. I was livid, worry, and at the same time desperately wanting to rescue.
I called the facility and asked questions which non really could be answered due to he is of age. But I made them aware that I am not an option to drive hours away or give shelter.
Son left a voicemail stating how is able to get transported back to the city and he got accepted back into the sober living house in our town.
It is his journey now. I will most likely be on here more so just to stay strong and not jeopardize my boundaries.
I will support him in his 12 steps and NA meetings but I'm not sure how. Do families attend the meetings or?