Saw my son yesterday. He looked great and was a pleasure to be around. He still won't say much about his life though, which is kinda sad for me as his dad. We did talk a little bit about the "how are you and I doing"- stuff; Just a tad and that's enough for now. The ghosting he cannot explain, or will not. Perhaps in time. But we had a good time and played games and ate, talked and it felt good. And he appears to be clean. So there is hope. Even if just a little quiet one.