My daughter comes over crying and says that she is over her 1/2 ass boyfriend and this time for sure. My husband tells her that if he sees him over at the house we own that he will kick her out, she swears she is done with 1/2 ass boyfriend. We decide to take an early morning bike ride past her house and there is his car. My husband does not want to confront it but I do so I go in the back yard and look in the window. I knock on the window and they are upstairs. Husband told her to get out by April 15th. She said boyfriend did not spend the night just came by to take her to church..My husband feels the car and it is cold meaning he spent the night. All that means is her mania will be off the walls. She has given up her life, car, house and all bills, just thrown them in the wind over this 1/2 ass boyfriend that lives with his mother part time. So I see the end to our money drain, we are renting the house out to other people soon and I pray they are good tenants. Before my daughter met this 1/2 ass man the arrangement was working. I have been crying non stop..An intelligent woman almost 36 years old is throwing everything out over a man that can't be on time or tells her one thing and does another and is on the verge of a break up with her all the time. The lies are bouncing out like fireballs, all I know is that the financial bleeding is about to end. I am trying to find the right words to how I feel. Heartbroken, sad, grieved, troubled, overwhelming sad I feel as if someone punched me in the stomach..And I feel all this after practicing detachment.. How much worse would I feel if I did not practice active detachment. I am going to have a good cry, put my face into the sun and feel the blessing of the day. I am alive and healthy.