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After their father came my son wanted to spend night w him and he's upset father left. Now he says he be there all time cuz his father has a new baby and he wants to meet him. Well, father is not making oldest boys see him but is my daughter. My son in tantrum now because I washed his hair and he kept asking me to look at his behind if he had "diarrhea" ..He said look do I have any? A dot? A little? Kept asking over and and over like he wasnt happy with the first time I answered no. He keeps asking questions over and over, even trying to rearrange them until he gets an answer he likes.
My dream was them coming but he did actually came and I am actually having problems with the neurologist all sudden they want actual card, certificate, new referral. Y didnt they tell me this a month ago? Referral lasts 6 months really what are they pulling? The answering service said this is not the first time they done this to someone because they have received the other call too
At this point.. their father has a job, married, stable, all sudden no cheater, no violence with this relationship and he claims all he does is smoke cigarettes.( after 25 years of it) Plus he says he can do a better job and they have chores there and he will make them do it because they will want to do it with him!!! ( I do have rules and chores but ha) Yes, I feel sorry for myself because I have been single many years, ( but yet how could I have trust a man I believe 98% men cheat ..,violent, controlling, well at least to me), I did want more kids( ok well, before 30 cuz after that no way I could carry or keep up with lil ones) . He ruined my life , my relationships, my kids life, he was "when he felt like being a dad" and now its like a brand new man, perfect everything and yes, i hate that. Why him? No, Im not jealous of her I dont want him. Hes in his careers he wants too, Im not I see my kids different than their half brothers, and I just see its me.. no matter what u say.
Well, it seems as I was so close to get help and now so far again. As their dad says his family is not violent and never diagnosed with anything its my moms fault and mine but he will grow out of it. Maybe hes right I mean his oldest boys dont seem to have any issues, I also watched them and oldest was quite but now he just likes to talk! Youngest had a few issue tantrums ( not really violent) as toddler but quickly grew out of them. I been around them since oldest was a baby. I mean, even tho I have other witness ( my family witnessed with one in particular of his family member- they were the victim, and been told of their violence and his family tell me violence runs in the family, cheating, controlling, drinking, plus my kids father arrest record, plus the way my ex threatened some of my ex friends
Bless you all and you all will always be in my thoughts and prayers. You are all angels ( esp putting up with me)
My dream was them coming but he did actually came and I am actually having problems with the neurologist all sudden they want actual card, certificate, new referral. Y didnt they tell me this a month ago? Referral lasts 6 months really what are they pulling? The answering service said this is not the first time they done this to someone because they have received the other call too
At this point.. their father has a job, married, stable, all sudden no cheater, no violence with this relationship and he claims all he does is smoke cigarettes.( after 25 years of it) Plus he says he can do a better job and they have chores there and he will make them do it because they will want to do it with him!!! ( I do have rules and chores but ha) Yes, I feel sorry for myself because I have been single many years, ( but yet how could I have trust a man I believe 98% men cheat ..,violent, controlling, well at least to me), I did want more kids( ok well, before 30 cuz after that no way I could carry or keep up with lil ones) . He ruined my life , my relationships, my kids life, he was "when he felt like being a dad" and now its like a brand new man, perfect everything and yes, i hate that. Why him? No, Im not jealous of her I dont want him. Hes in his careers he wants too, Im not I see my kids different than their half brothers, and I just see its me.. no matter what u say.
Well, it seems as I was so close to get help and now so far again. As their dad says his family is not violent and never diagnosed with anything its my moms fault and mine but he will grow out of it. Maybe hes right I mean his oldest boys dont seem to have any issues, I also watched them and oldest was quite but now he just likes to talk! Youngest had a few issue tantrums ( not really violent) as toddler but quickly grew out of them. I been around them since oldest was a baby. I mean, even tho I have other witness ( my family witnessed with one in particular of his family member- they were the victim, and been told of their violence and his family tell me violence runs in the family, cheating, controlling, drinking, plus my kids father arrest record, plus the way my ex threatened some of my ex friends
Bless you all and you all will always be in my thoughts and prayers. You are all angels ( esp putting up with me)