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What is your relationship like with your 1st cousins?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 737502" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ok. Your decision just became a lot easier.</p><p></p><p>It isnt about your cousin or the family that you were shunned by. What it boils down to is yourself and your grandfather only. Does he truly not know how the family treated yours? Can you not sit him down and tell him that you wish it were different, like he does, but that you were never part of the family and never will be and nobody will care if you dont show up?</p><p></p><p>My father wanted me to be close to my brother and sister. My plan in my head was that as soon as he passed I would not see my sister again, and as for my brother....that was up to him. I didnt care. I talked to them for a few weeks. Then my.sister said she felt it was okay that she called the police on me many times for nothing. I realized it was hopeless and that I wanted to be free of them. But my father .didnt know I planned this. He does now, but he undetstands now. When he was alive I didnt tell him my plan.</p><p></p><p>You can either go or.not go. Unlike me, he will know if you dont go. But it sounds like it will be a big ordeal if you go.</p><p></p><p>This is totally up to you and the only other person involved is your grandfather and his pointless wish. You have a lot to think about. When you do, take yourself into consideration.</p><p></p><p>Love and light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 737502, member: 1550"] Ok. Your decision just became a lot easier. It isnt about your cousin or the family that you were shunned by. What it boils down to is yourself and your grandfather only. Does he truly not know how the family treated yours? Can you not sit him down and tell him that you wish it were different, like he does, but that you were never part of the family and never will be and nobody will care if you dont show up? My father wanted me to be close to my brother and sister. My plan in my head was that as soon as he passed I would not see my sister again, and as for my brother....that was up to him. I didnt care. I talked to them for a few weeks. Then my.sister said she felt it was okay that she called the police on me many times for nothing. I realized it was hopeless and that I wanted to be free of them. But my father .didnt know I planned this. He does now, but he undetstands now. When he was alive I didnt tell him my plan. You can either go or.not go. Unlike me, he will know if you dont go. But it sounds like it will be a big ordeal if you go. This is totally up to you and the only other person involved is your grandfather and his pointless wish. You have a lot to think about. When you do, take yourself into consideration. Love and light. [/QUOTE]
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