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Will Kicking my addict son out of my home solve the problem ?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 620058" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Reading your post was heartwrenching, but you can not, under any circumstances, live with him ever again. He is dangerous, unstable, and scary. Change your locks...he may try to break in. I don't know where you live or if they have restraining orders in your country to keep people legally away from you, but if you do, try to get one. It is sad when the ones we love so much are dangerous to us, but sometimes we have to end even relationships with our children. Since he has beaten you up, if I were you, I would never see him alone, without a very strong man at your side. I'm not sure I would want to see him at all, but I am not you and this is your decision. Tell your daughters to watch out in case he is lurking around your house.</p><p></p><p>Remember: YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR LOCKS! I'd also change any credit card passwords he knows about or ANY passwords that he knows about. If he comes to your door banging on it, call the police again. Safety has to be your first priority. </p><p></p><p>Once this is settled, you can then start to move on and create a new and better life for yourself, free of fear and without walking on eggshells constantly. There is something very wrong with any adult who will strike his own mother. That is crossing a line that means he does not care about societal norms and will do anything at all to get his own way, even harm his own family. It is not normal.</p><p></p><p>When you are having a hard time, maybe think of the wonderful Serenity Prayer, which I feel has value even if you do not believe in a higher power (of course it helps more if you do).</p><p></p><p>"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change,</p><p>the courage to change the things I can,</p><p>and the wisdom to know the difference."</p><p></p><p>I once had a necklace with this prayer on it to remind me of these true words when I started feeling like I had to fix this or fix that person. </p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs for your hurting heart and hoping you find peace soon. Please keep posting. We are on call here 24/7 <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 620058, member: 1550"] Reading your post was heartwrenching, but you can not, under any circumstances, live with him ever again. He is dangerous, unstable, and scary. Change your locks...he may try to break in. I don't know where you live or if they have restraining orders in your country to keep people legally away from you, but if you do, try to get one. It is sad when the ones we love so much are dangerous to us, but sometimes we have to end even relationships with our children. Since he has beaten you up, if I were you, I would never see him alone, without a very strong man at your side. I'm not sure I would want to see him at all, but I am not you and this is your decision. Tell your daughters to watch out in case he is lurking around your house. Remember: YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR LOCKS! I'd also change any credit card passwords he knows about or ANY passwords that he knows about. If he comes to your door banging on it, call the police again. Safety has to be your first priority. Once this is settled, you can then start to move on and create a new and better life for yourself, free of fear and without walking on eggshells constantly. There is something very wrong with any adult who will strike his own mother. That is crossing a line that means he does not care about societal norms and will do anything at all to get his own way, even harm his own family. It is not normal. When you are having a hard time, maybe think of the wonderful Serenity Prayer, which I feel has value even if you do not believe in a higher power (of course it helps more if you do). "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." I once had a necklace with this prayer on it to remind me of these true words when I started feeling like I had to fix this or fix that person. Gentle hugs for your hurting heart and hoping you find peace soon. Please keep posting. We are on call here 24/7 :) [/QUOTE]
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