We learned a few months ago that Difficult Child was married. This marriage is to a woman husband had as a student years ago (husband does not remember her.) She has a daughter....about 12 years old. She Face Booked husband in May 2018. husband did not see the message until about 6 weeks later. She said Difficult Child was very unstable and had slammed her hand in a door. husband did not respond. A couple months later, we learned they had married. Fast forward a few months. They moved to another state. Tonight, husband sees a message the wife sent in June 2019. She includes her phone # and asks husband to call her, saying she has questions she should have sought answers to earlier. Says Difficult Child has abandoned her in this faraway state. My first reaction arose from a place in my gut that has been dormant for quite awhile. I was like, "You must contact her! That poor woman and daughter. We must see if we can help." husband wisely decided that he cannot get involved. After about ten minutes, I knew he was correct. Those sucker punches may not come nearly as frequently with no contact, but they can most definitely still pop up.