our Difficult Child daughter is coming to town for a few days for Xmas. Those who have been here awhile know this always results in turmoil. Always. Last year she screamed at me for several minutes because she couldn’t find toilet paper. And was VERY often grouchy . Two years ago she was freakin mean to my dog and I burst out crying. It’s akways something bizarre, disturbing, depressing and stressful. Last few days via phone she seemed to be trying. But I’m on high alert. We were texting and all was ok when out of the blue she was sarcastic to us. We responded that we don’t like sarcasm. She has been told this before. We find it unkind and unhelpful. Due to this, she can still join us for Xmas, still greatly participate...but will not be sleeping at our house. We have made her a hotel reservation. She cried and carried on. It’s unfair. You are kicking me out of the family. I was trying. We told her she has been warned countless times. Due to my health concerns I’m going to bed early. At the end of the day we will take her or uber her to the nearby hotel and she is not to have anyone at the hotel. She seems to have accepted this. We are a tad nervous we are in for a good day of craziness.meaning whooo is me. I hope not. Any thoughts?