I have guardiaship of my 13 year old granddaughter. K can be very physically and emotionally abuse.we have had the police at our house so many times that they even commnt on something new we have done to the house. She has been on many 51/50 holds.(taken there in hand cuffs). She breaks our house and my relationship with my husband is Deteriorating.. We have tried many different medications and nothing works.
I am now working with CPS, To possibly temporary relinquish rights to get help.. But before doing that we had a family friend that lives 9 hours away from us that decided to give it a try.. K loves it there and loves her kids. She was supposed to stay there for 5 Months and finish school there, because I could not get her to go to school . Well it lasted 2 weeks. Yesterday she got pulled from the house by the police CPS took her and we have to go pick her up.
So now I'm back with maybe having to temporarily relinquish rights but that scares me. They say there is a new law in California that you could turn over guardianship temporarily for behaviors. I got 2 short weeks of respite And that wasn't enough. I am shaking inside about bringing her Home because she controls my life. I love her with all my heart but I feel like I'm in a domestic violent situation with her. We live in a small county and have used every Resource avalabe to us.ANY advise is welcome.
I am now working with CPS, To possibly temporary relinquish rights to get help.. But before doing that we had a family friend that lives 9 hours away from us that decided to give it a try.. K loves it there and loves her kids. She was supposed to stay there for 5 Months and finish school there, because I could not get her to go to school . Well it lasted 2 weeks. Yesterday she got pulled from the house by the police CPS took her and we have to go pick her up.
So now I'm back with maybe having to temporarily relinquish rights but that scares me. They say there is a new law in California that you could turn over guardianship temporarily for behaviors. I got 2 short weeks of respite And that wasn't enough. I am shaking inside about bringing her Home because she controls my life. I love her with all my heart but I feel like I'm in a domestic violent situation with her. We live in a small county and have used every Resource avalabe to us.ANY advise is welcome.