Fedupmom52
New Member
Hi,
I am new to the site and need to vent cause I feel like I am losing it. My adult child has lived with me for most of his life, he has been out with a girlfriend for a year or 2 but is always back. My adult son works but pays no rent and is broke a day after payday and cant explain why. I told him over a year ago that I wanted him to move out and get his own place but he never would, a few months ago I decided I was going to move so I told him that he has 2 months and then he has to go because I was moving. He didn't look for a place until a week ago and he was denied an apt because of evictions he has in the past. My son is now very angry and accusing me of not caring that he will be homeless and living in his car (a car I bought). I have tried everything I can to help him short of renting a place for him which I can not afford. My son has Bi Polar and gets very angry so easily and is very rarely in a good mood. I feel like it drains the life out of me to deal with him. I just keep saying to myself that a mom should not have to keep raising a 32 yr old man. Whenever I think about my moving day which is in 10 days I get so stressed because I know he will make it miserable for me the whole time.
I am new to the site and need to vent cause I feel like I am losing it. My adult child has lived with me for most of his life, he has been out with a girlfriend for a year or 2 but is always back. My adult son works but pays no rent and is broke a day after payday and cant explain why. I told him over a year ago that I wanted him to move out and get his own place but he never would, a few months ago I decided I was going to move so I told him that he has 2 months and then he has to go because I was moving. He didn't look for a place until a week ago and he was denied an apt because of evictions he has in the past. My son is now very angry and accusing me of not caring that he will be homeless and living in his car (a car I bought). I have tried everything I can to help him short of renting a place for him which I can not afford. My son has Bi Polar and gets very angry so easily and is very rarely in a good mood. I feel like it drains the life out of me to deal with him. I just keep saying to myself that a mom should not have to keep raising a 32 yr old man. Whenever I think about my moving day which is in 10 days I get so stressed because I know he will make it miserable for me the whole time.