ANewLife4Me
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It sounds like such a straightforward statement: let go and let God. Easy to say but not so easy to do. Right? People who say that donāt necessarily have your life with its stress, worries, fears and problems. Or maybe itās just me thinking this way?
So ālet go and let Godā may seem simple, but itās not. Still, that doesnāt mean it canāt be done. It doesnāt even mean that it has to be hard. Itās possible, ifāand sure, thatās a fairly big āifāāyou sincerely and prayerfully follow steps such as these:
Much of our inability to ālet go and let Godā stems from our failure to recognize that often the things that stress us and worry us are things we canāt control.
Replace your frantic thoughts with calming thoughts, based on Godās promises such as, āNever will I leave you; never will I forsake you.ā (Hebrews 13:5, NIV).
For example, āin quietness and in confidence shall be your strengthā (Isaiah 30:15, KJV) or āIt is well with my soul.ā You might even choose a new one every day or every week.
He didnāt suggest that we wonāt have trouble; far from it. He did say, however, that we should focus our minds and hearts on this day and its challenges. Thatās plenty. The same God who is with us and empowers us to meet today will be there tomorrow.
So maybe ālet go and let Godā isnāt expecting too much. If, that is, we do it one day at a time.
So ālet go and let Godā may seem simple, but itās not. Still, that doesnāt mean it canāt be done. It doesnāt even mean that it has to be hard. Itās possible, ifāand sure, thatās a fairly big āifāāyou sincerely and prayerfully follow steps such as these:
1) Identify what you can controlāand what you canāt.
My wife is a professional counselor. She and I often remind each other of our shared definition of mental and spiritual health: controlling what you canānot what you canāt.Much of our inability to ālet go and let Godā stems from our failure to recognize that often the things that stress us and worry us are things we canāt control.
2) Address what you can control.
Another key to mental health is action. In fact, very often inactivity breeds worry, even depression. One antidote to worry and stress is action. So, instead of brooding over your situation, take action on the things you can control (which almost exclusively pertain to you and your attitudes; funny how that works).3) Surrender what you canāt control.
In the words of the late theologian E. Stanley Jones, āSurrender the thing you fear into the hands of God. Turn it right over to God and ask Him to solve it with you. Fear is keeping things in your own hands; faith is turning them over into the hands of Godāand leaving them there.ā4) Meditate on the promises of your faithful God.
The psalmist sang, āI remember the days of long ago; I meditate on all Your works and consider what Your hands have doneā (Psalm 143:5, NIV).Replace your frantic thoughts with calming thoughts, based on Godās promises such as, āNever will I leave you; never will I forsake you.ā (Hebrews 13:5, NIV).
5) Choose a āletting goā motto.
Select a memorable verse or phrase that you can repeat to yourself throughout the day to keep your mind and spirit from descending into worry.For example, āin quietness and in confidence shall be your strengthā (Isaiah 30:15, KJV) or āIt is well with my soul.ā You might even choose a new one every day or every week.
6) Resolve not to act on fear but on faith.
To quote E. Stanley Jones again, āNever act on a fear, for fears are usually falseā¦. Donāt build your life according to any pattern shown to you in the valley of fear. Wait till you get to the mount of faith and then build your life plans.ā7) Focus your mind and heart on trusting God today.
Jesus said, āDo not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its ownā (Matthew 6:34, NIV).He didnāt suggest that we wonāt have trouble; far from it. He did say, however, that we should focus our minds and hearts on this day and its challenges. Thatās plenty. The same God who is with us and empowers us to meet today will be there tomorrow.
So maybe ālet go and let Godā isnāt expecting too much. If, that is, we do it one day at a time.