PatTheGeneralTornado
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I have a daughter. She is 23. She has a mother that is in a wheelchair and disabled mind wise as well. She's easily manipulated. My daughter uses that to her advantage. Before that was a thing, my daughter was a practically straight A student all of her school career. In her Jr year she saw a show called Glee. She wanted to go to a school like Glee. She found out that her district had a school called Inspire. It's like glee. BUT its also a charter which was for kids that weren't succeeding well in school. Obviously not for her. So we as her parents said no. She brought paperwork from school one day, telling her mom it was her registration and that she was in a special program and it confused her mom so she called the school and they told her it was a different school and her mom said no, and then later asked our daughter to bring her regular papers to sign to her normal school, daughter did and mom signed them. FINDING OUT LATER that by confusing her mother she got the papers filled out and signed to go to this Inspire. I wasn't told about this until she was through the semester and I got her report card that said Inspire on it.
At this school most of it was dance, she had few real classes and they were fill in the blanks stuff. Far Far below her. We told her that when colleges look at that, it would effect how they felt about her attending the university she wanted because it was a charter for struggling kids and they would be confused why she was doing that when her grades were so consistent. Sure enough. It happened. college after college wrote to her telling her they were concerned she might not be able to keep up with the work etc. She took her SATS got a great score but still for the same reasons the colleges turned her down. THEN..
She started taking remedial courses(because they were easy) at the local college to get some college credit before she graduated I guess it was duel credit. She told her mother she was in a degree program(lie) and she would have a degree when she graduated in high school.(lie) It turned out, the reason she wanted to do this program is because this adult college guy caught her attention while she was there. Her mom didn't know about him for months.
As the summer hit. Shes a minor remember, She goes to a camp for a week and guess whos a leader there?(we didn't find THAT out till WAY later) she told her mother she got a modeling gig (lie) she found a craigslist photographer "starting his portfolio, free pics for yours etc.." her mom got excited and she did the shoot....it was pinup and highly sexualized. I didnt find this out till daughter published the pictures of her UNDERAGE self pouring honey all down her body in a barely there string bikini that was scooted so far down her abdomen it was almost child porn. I was livid. My daugher told me her mom let her, her mom said "she won it, it was a spot to be a model to save the bees"(lie) She told me shes fine, leave her alone. (Grr) So then, she told her mother a famous studio asked her to come to new york and sign with them and she presented her paperwork. We said NO WAY. THEN, Nickelodeon came into town and did a cattle call. We told her no to that too. See, if shes a minor (and she was)Her mom or I would have to be with her wherever they flew her and at all times on set. NEITHER of us could do that. I worked and her mom just simply couldn't due to her limitations. SO she told her mom she would go to acting camp instead. and stay with her uncle to attend camp. She told her mother Jennifer Anniston was going to be her acting coach.(it was in Los Angeles) So without me knowing a thing about that, her great grandmother (daughters bank and yes man) bought her tickets and sent her to LA...I found out she was in LA because I saw nude pics of my daughter with pasties and a tutu and no undies on walking in this massive parade of people in the streets of LA...she posted the pics on her facebook! SO I send them to her mother and ask what the hell is going on?! She knew nothing about that. (she doesnt use internet) It also turns out.. Jennifer Anniston was in Ireland shooting Bird Box at that time for one, and she was NOT staying with my brother(the uncle) he didnt even know she was IN LA.. (Grrrrrrr) THEN...
She took a plane(good ol' 'great grandma) to NEW YORK!! (we were still trying to get to LA to drag her lying butt home) She told her grandma she was with body guards! another LIE. She was with this adult college guy and a gay guy she met and another friend all guys... NOT minors. SHE was. She has this adult guy sign the papers as her father. She flies home, we find out shes NOT in LA and that she went to NY and is on her way home we are LIVID. LIVID. Her great grandmother tells us were nut jobs and daughter could be famous and leave her alone. shes fine. (Grrrrrrrrrrr)
She lives with her mother through all of this so when she gets back she's grounded, her electronics taken, etc.. NOT FOR LONG. Her mother doesn't ever stick with a punishment. I think since the day we first had to, there was literally no consequences. I couldn't do much, she lived in their house. Bank of great grandma and yes man, and her I wanna be her friend mom. I am beyond frustrated and pissed and find out this guy is an adult and I FORBID the relationship. Her mom says she can date this adult guy under supervision.(constantly I was undermined) The supervision is.. "is someone else with you two? yes? ok" ......There was never anyone ever with them. THEN daughter starts out of the blue dressing like a harlot.. with booty shorts, mid drifts and stilettoes.. harlot. We forbid it, it continues and(I dont know shes seeing this adult) so I go up to her mothers after the 10th time her mom won't take her harlot clothes away and so she tells me to come get them and I confiscate all the clothing. I go shopping and fill her drawers with decent clothes that are new. EVEN shopped at her favorite store for them. Just made sure they were decent. She didn't like that so... She had sex with the adult guy and left used condoms all over the bedroom and stuck in vents outside the house..her MOTHER had to clean up.. I told her..." But Ro.. "Shes fine." isn't that what you told me?" THEN.. great grandma gets a that year mustang and takes daughter to get her permit(im thinking, bad idea right now) she passes and comes home. Great grandma against her mother and my wishes lets her BORROW THE MUSTANG. (Im not told about this) I find out because the father of this adult boy calls and asks us to peel our daughter off their son that he's missing assignments and not passing tests and it's because she's been DRIVING TO SAN FRANSCISCO to VISIT the college!! And that she has had him in her car against their wishes and that they can do that because THEY pay his college. Ok. So..We FORBIT her to see him. We tell her it was HIS fathers wishes. (I believe his words were "shes not the type of girl he needs to be cavorting around with) and that they set rules and she doesn't follow them. APARENTLY.. someone saw her and thought she was a kid( my daughter looks like she's 13) and saw her pictures on his phone..racy pics im told. This whoever reported it called literally EVERY part of the college to let them know. (Yikes) and he ALMOST looses his package and his place in the College I guess it would be for sex with a minor or child porn I don't know. I find this out because ONE my daughter calls me and rails me thinking I did it. Lying about how she had the FBI look up who and it was me. lol TWO his DAD calls us again LIVID. Ugh.. she lives with her mother I tell him. Theres only so much I can do.
STILL she drives him around. Her mother tells the dad shes fine. (see? you really have to slow down, explain one thing at a time to Ro. I believe that response was because she was confused.) and DAD calls ME. Daughter retaliates and has sex with the guy..leaving condoms that are used all over the room, stuck in vents outside that her mother and great grandma have to clean up because a neighbor called CPS because daughter was out after midnight walking home from some theature thing she was doing. (UGH...AHHHHH! )
Girls are hard.
Then.. She turns 18, goes to see the guy after being apart 7 months. We finally kept them apart. After she tried to get into his college and they rejected her application (whew!) She even tried USF(has in Berkeley) BOTH rejected her app. (SAME reasons by the way) SO.. she goes to see him, he tells her he doesn't feel the same anymore (big surprise) and she retaliates by deciding shes fallen in love with some other guy. She dates 3 in succession moving in with all of them. ugh... then she starts a tik tok. Her videos are her practically naked and doing transitions where she has clothing on then she's in fetish wear.. UGH....Then she starts drinking(of course) and still switching boyfriend's and she ends up in Sacramento with one and we like this one. Hes great. BUTTT. he doesn't like her tik tok content(of course he wouldn't) and the fact she told everyone shes suddenly BI(several of her friends were and the political women's movement CRAP started so she of course is trying to be one of them..and then she writes on her profiles that shes poly.. guy leaves her. and then comes back and she immediately goes to visit this other guy she claims was her best friend( never heard of him nor has her mother) in BALTIMORE and she spends a week there. She comes back and the boyfriend leaves her. She suddenly "realizes" shes in love with this best friend and she packs up and MOVES to Baltimore! The #3 state in the NATION for violent crime, rape, trafficking, murder etc.. and her tik tok gets WORSE..like.. wearing nothing but a few pieces of wrapping paper and nothing else worse..like..fetish wear from a sex shop out in the snow dancing sexualized dances in the parking lot worse.. like drunk in pasties and a skirt that half covers her butt cheeks and stilletoes in the middle of the night worse..all in BALTIMORE. She then LAUNCHES a porn career.. and ONLYFANS. she buys a testla which, gets stolen in a week. BIG SUPRISE. she keeps this up, then she starts posting all kinds of sexualized and objectified pictures and videos on her twitter and tik tok and spread legs, no bra, sex museum.. and guy leaves her. in fact, he leaves HIS apartment since it has a bunch of other guys in it, and shes always filming and he's trying to get through college and so she moves and tells NO ONE where she is. In Balt. but we dont know where or who her friends are or who her guy is( they change a lot) and we notice that everytime she has a new guy, she moves. we realize shes going from guy to guy to keep a roof over her head...sigh....so THEN she starts regularly starts wearing all this fetish and half covered butt cheek stuff and pasties to places like stores, the mall (where kids and families are) and starts playing MTG(Magic the gathering) and going to tournaments. DRESSED LIKE THAT. "PROMOTING HER PORN" she tells people, "Call me whore" she tells people and she makes huge recorded scenes with cops and security and stuff that "OBJECTIFY AND SEXUALIZE" her..(GRRRRRRRRRRRR) I tell her not only are you going to end up with AIDS but your going to end up on the sex registry because in multiple states if you end up with indecent exposure? you end up on the registry. " Thats a YOU problem" she says. "Its sick my own father is sexualizing me" she says. " Im an object when I say so" she says " my body my choice" she says. " no one gets to tell me what to wear" she says. I love this one.." Just because my clothes are from a sex store doesn't mean their for sex" .......oh boy. So NOW...she travels the country, dressed like that, shooting various sex acts either alone or with multiple guys or multiple girls or some sex club for her Only Fans.. She drug my wife into court for TRAFFICKING her photos once because the family got a bunch of her pictures of her acts and she blamed my wife who..had NO IDEA (I didnt tell her, it would have broke her heart) she HAD a sex site at that time. So thats how SHE found out. and it turned out one of her cousins paid for a subscription to her site to see what it was and sent the pics around. So that was MONTHS of stress and anxiety. If my wife had been deemed guilty, she would have done the time IN BALTIMORE. years!
Then..of course she was vindicated. Daughter had no proof who it was. We didnt even know til later. NOW...She's performing IMPACT PLAY (look that up) on stage in a sex club in front of crowds for content..I am at the point, I want NOTHING to do with her. NOTHING. I didnt raise that. I don't respect or support that. Shes going to get herself stalked, raped, killed and left in a gutter and I DO NOT want to be there when she does. I'm DONE. I have been 5150'd multiple times over this stuff shes doing, I have constant reoccurring nightmares about her dying or being attacked or raped. Shes on stage getting tied to crosses and beaten and violated...WHO WOULDNT?! I have no respect for this dumpster fire lifestyle. I never will. I can't DO anything about it and i'm just about to go BACK into the hospital. AND apparently IM the toxic father. it's MY fault she does this. Im like.. BS. She LIVED with her mother, She was SPOILED by my WHOLE family ALL her life. ALWAYS. HUGE ITALIAN LOVING FAMILY. She VISITED me and we traveled. We camped. We had good times. She really wasn't a bad kid until THIS stuff started. I really had NO issues with her on the whole. Im NOT taking responsibility for this. THIS is on HER. She was never even exposed to it growing up so I don't know who even introduced her to this trash in the first place! NOW shes moving to NY on Monday, heard through grape vine, and I don't know where. IF she was in trouble or hurt i'd never make it to her. I wouldnt even know where to go or who to talk to. and it's YET ANOTHER guy shes moving in with. And everyone asks me this but YES I did consider she might be trafficked. two things about that I was told by both NY and Baltimore that if she in fact is? they cant do anything unless she wants help! unless SHE wants OUT?! AND I have to have an address. I DONT. NO ONE in our family does. Im left with 5150's, NO answers, NOTHING I can do about it, NO ONE I can talk to. and What happens happens.
Just remember, 1. GIRLS ARE HARD. 2. If anyone ever complains about a tantrum in the store with a toddler? show them MY story. I'd DIE for something like that instead.
At this school most of it was dance, she had few real classes and they were fill in the blanks stuff. Far Far below her. We told her that when colleges look at that, it would effect how they felt about her attending the university she wanted because it was a charter for struggling kids and they would be confused why she was doing that when her grades were so consistent. Sure enough. It happened. college after college wrote to her telling her they were concerned she might not be able to keep up with the work etc. She took her SATS got a great score but still for the same reasons the colleges turned her down. THEN..
She started taking remedial courses(because they were easy) at the local college to get some college credit before she graduated I guess it was duel credit. She told her mother she was in a degree program(lie) and she would have a degree when she graduated in high school.(lie) It turned out, the reason she wanted to do this program is because this adult college guy caught her attention while she was there. Her mom didn't know about him for months.
As the summer hit. Shes a minor remember, She goes to a camp for a week and guess whos a leader there?(we didn't find THAT out till WAY later) she told her mother she got a modeling gig (lie) she found a craigslist photographer "starting his portfolio, free pics for yours etc.." her mom got excited and she did the shoot....it was pinup and highly sexualized. I didnt find this out till daughter published the pictures of her UNDERAGE self pouring honey all down her body in a barely there string bikini that was scooted so far down her abdomen it was almost child porn. I was livid. My daugher told me her mom let her, her mom said "she won it, it was a spot to be a model to save the bees"(lie) She told me shes fine, leave her alone. (Grr) So then, she told her mother a famous studio asked her to come to new york and sign with them and she presented her paperwork. We said NO WAY. THEN, Nickelodeon came into town and did a cattle call. We told her no to that too. See, if shes a minor (and she was)Her mom or I would have to be with her wherever they flew her and at all times on set. NEITHER of us could do that. I worked and her mom just simply couldn't due to her limitations. SO she told her mom she would go to acting camp instead. and stay with her uncle to attend camp. She told her mother Jennifer Anniston was going to be her acting coach.(it was in Los Angeles) So without me knowing a thing about that, her great grandmother (daughters bank and yes man) bought her tickets and sent her to LA...I found out she was in LA because I saw nude pics of my daughter with pasties and a tutu and no undies on walking in this massive parade of people in the streets of LA...she posted the pics on her facebook! SO I send them to her mother and ask what the hell is going on?! She knew nothing about that. (she doesnt use internet) It also turns out.. Jennifer Anniston was in Ireland shooting Bird Box at that time for one, and she was NOT staying with my brother(the uncle) he didnt even know she was IN LA.. (Grrrrrrr) THEN...
She took a plane(good ol' 'great grandma) to NEW YORK!! (we were still trying to get to LA to drag her lying butt home) She told her grandma she was with body guards! another LIE. She was with this adult college guy and a gay guy she met and another friend all guys... NOT minors. SHE was. She has this adult guy sign the papers as her father. She flies home, we find out shes NOT in LA and that she went to NY and is on her way home we are LIVID. LIVID. Her great grandmother tells us were nut jobs and daughter could be famous and leave her alone. shes fine. (Grrrrrrrrrrr)
She lives with her mother through all of this so when she gets back she's grounded, her electronics taken, etc.. NOT FOR LONG. Her mother doesn't ever stick with a punishment. I think since the day we first had to, there was literally no consequences. I couldn't do much, she lived in their house. Bank of great grandma and yes man, and her I wanna be her friend mom. I am beyond frustrated and pissed and find out this guy is an adult and I FORBID the relationship. Her mom says she can date this adult guy under supervision.(constantly I was undermined) The supervision is.. "is someone else with you two? yes? ok" ......There was never anyone ever with them. THEN daughter starts out of the blue dressing like a harlot.. with booty shorts, mid drifts and stilettoes.. harlot. We forbid it, it continues and(I dont know shes seeing this adult) so I go up to her mothers after the 10th time her mom won't take her harlot clothes away and so she tells me to come get them and I confiscate all the clothing. I go shopping and fill her drawers with decent clothes that are new. EVEN shopped at her favorite store for them. Just made sure they were decent. She didn't like that so... She had sex with the adult guy and left used condoms all over the bedroom and stuck in vents outside the house..her MOTHER had to clean up.. I told her..." But Ro.. "Shes fine." isn't that what you told me?" THEN.. great grandma gets a that year mustang and takes daughter to get her permit(im thinking, bad idea right now) she passes and comes home. Great grandma against her mother and my wishes lets her BORROW THE MUSTANG. (Im not told about this) I find out because the father of this adult boy calls and asks us to peel our daughter off their son that he's missing assignments and not passing tests and it's because she's been DRIVING TO SAN FRANSCISCO to VISIT the college!! And that she has had him in her car against their wishes and that they can do that because THEY pay his college. Ok. So..We FORBIT her to see him. We tell her it was HIS fathers wishes. (I believe his words were "shes not the type of girl he needs to be cavorting around with) and that they set rules and she doesn't follow them. APARENTLY.. someone saw her and thought she was a kid( my daughter looks like she's 13) and saw her pictures on his phone..racy pics im told. This whoever reported it called literally EVERY part of the college to let them know. (Yikes) and he ALMOST looses his package and his place in the College I guess it would be for sex with a minor or child porn I don't know. I find this out because ONE my daughter calls me and rails me thinking I did it. Lying about how she had the FBI look up who and it was me. lol TWO his DAD calls us again LIVID. Ugh.. she lives with her mother I tell him. Theres only so much I can do.
STILL she drives him around. Her mother tells the dad shes fine. (see? you really have to slow down, explain one thing at a time to Ro. I believe that response was because she was confused.) and DAD calls ME. Daughter retaliates and has sex with the guy..leaving condoms that are used all over the room, stuck in vents outside that her mother and great grandma have to clean up because a neighbor called CPS because daughter was out after midnight walking home from some theature thing she was doing. (UGH...AHHHHH! )
Girls are hard.
Then.. She turns 18, goes to see the guy after being apart 7 months. We finally kept them apart. After she tried to get into his college and they rejected her application (whew!) She even tried USF(has in Berkeley) BOTH rejected her app. (SAME reasons by the way) SO.. she goes to see him, he tells her he doesn't feel the same anymore (big surprise) and she retaliates by deciding shes fallen in love with some other guy. She dates 3 in succession moving in with all of them. ugh... then she starts a tik tok. Her videos are her practically naked and doing transitions where she has clothing on then she's in fetish wear.. UGH....Then she starts drinking(of course) and still switching boyfriend's and she ends up in Sacramento with one and we like this one. Hes great. BUTTT. he doesn't like her tik tok content(of course he wouldn't) and the fact she told everyone shes suddenly BI(several of her friends were and the political women's movement CRAP started so she of course is trying to be one of them..and then she writes on her profiles that shes poly.. guy leaves her. and then comes back and she immediately goes to visit this other guy she claims was her best friend( never heard of him nor has her mother) in BALTIMORE and she spends a week there. She comes back and the boyfriend leaves her. She suddenly "realizes" shes in love with this best friend and she packs up and MOVES to Baltimore! The #3 state in the NATION for violent crime, rape, trafficking, murder etc.. and her tik tok gets WORSE..like.. wearing nothing but a few pieces of wrapping paper and nothing else worse..like..fetish wear from a sex shop out in the snow dancing sexualized dances in the parking lot worse.. like drunk in pasties and a skirt that half covers her butt cheeks and stilletoes in the middle of the night worse..all in BALTIMORE. She then LAUNCHES a porn career.. and ONLYFANS. she buys a testla which, gets stolen in a week. BIG SUPRISE. she keeps this up, then she starts posting all kinds of sexualized and objectified pictures and videos on her twitter and tik tok and spread legs, no bra, sex museum.. and guy leaves her. in fact, he leaves HIS apartment since it has a bunch of other guys in it, and shes always filming and he's trying to get through college and so she moves and tells NO ONE where she is. In Balt. but we dont know where or who her friends are or who her guy is( they change a lot) and we notice that everytime she has a new guy, she moves. we realize shes going from guy to guy to keep a roof over her head...sigh....so THEN she starts regularly starts wearing all this fetish and half covered butt cheek stuff and pasties to places like stores, the mall (where kids and families are) and starts playing MTG(Magic the gathering) and going to tournaments. DRESSED LIKE THAT. "PROMOTING HER PORN" she tells people, "Call me whore" she tells people and she makes huge recorded scenes with cops and security and stuff that "OBJECTIFY AND SEXUALIZE" her..(GRRRRRRRRRRRR) I tell her not only are you going to end up with AIDS but your going to end up on the sex registry because in multiple states if you end up with indecent exposure? you end up on the registry. " Thats a YOU problem" she says. "Its sick my own father is sexualizing me" she says. " Im an object when I say so" she says " my body my choice" she says. " no one gets to tell me what to wear" she says. I love this one.." Just because my clothes are from a sex store doesn't mean their for sex" .......oh boy. So NOW...she travels the country, dressed like that, shooting various sex acts either alone or with multiple guys or multiple girls or some sex club for her Only Fans.. She drug my wife into court for TRAFFICKING her photos once because the family got a bunch of her pictures of her acts and she blamed my wife who..had NO IDEA (I didnt tell her, it would have broke her heart) she HAD a sex site at that time. So thats how SHE found out. and it turned out one of her cousins paid for a subscription to her site to see what it was and sent the pics around. So that was MONTHS of stress and anxiety. If my wife had been deemed guilty, she would have done the time IN BALTIMORE. years!
Then..of course she was vindicated. Daughter had no proof who it was. We didnt even know til later. NOW...She's performing IMPACT PLAY (look that up) on stage in a sex club in front of crowds for content..I am at the point, I want NOTHING to do with her. NOTHING. I didnt raise that. I don't respect or support that. Shes going to get herself stalked, raped, killed and left in a gutter and I DO NOT want to be there when she does. I'm DONE. I have been 5150'd multiple times over this stuff shes doing, I have constant reoccurring nightmares about her dying or being attacked or raped. Shes on stage getting tied to crosses and beaten and violated...WHO WOULDNT?! I have no respect for this dumpster fire lifestyle. I never will. I can't DO anything about it and i'm just about to go BACK into the hospital. AND apparently IM the toxic father. it's MY fault she does this. Im like.. BS. She LIVED with her mother, She was SPOILED by my WHOLE family ALL her life. ALWAYS. HUGE ITALIAN LOVING FAMILY. She VISITED me and we traveled. We camped. We had good times. She really wasn't a bad kid until THIS stuff started. I really had NO issues with her on the whole. Im NOT taking responsibility for this. THIS is on HER. She was never even exposed to it growing up so I don't know who even introduced her to this trash in the first place! NOW shes moving to NY on Monday, heard through grape vine, and I don't know where. IF she was in trouble or hurt i'd never make it to her. I wouldnt even know where to go or who to talk to. and it's YET ANOTHER guy shes moving in with. And everyone asks me this but YES I did consider she might be trafficked. two things about that I was told by both NY and Baltimore that if she in fact is? they cant do anything unless she wants help! unless SHE wants OUT?! AND I have to have an address. I DONT. NO ONE in our family does. Im left with 5150's, NO answers, NOTHING I can do about it, NO ONE I can talk to. and What happens happens.
Just remember, 1. GIRLS ARE HARD. 2. If anyone ever complains about a tantrum in the store with a toddler? show them MY story. I'd DIE for something like that instead.
