My 23 year old son with bipolar 2, anxiety and ADHD has an apartment which he never wants to stay at. He comes to our home and never wants to leave. Says being in his apartment makes him depressed, he cannot play his music, etc. My husband doesn't push the issue but this frustrates me to no end. My husband and I are planning on selling our house this summer and moving out of state. My son refuses to see a doctor or counselor to deal with his issues. Whenever I bring up the fact that he needs to sleep at his apartment, he gets defensive and complains about his depression etc. I feel he needs to learn to be independent, depressed or not, but I do not want to make things worse.