Helpless29
Well-Known Member
I haven’t posted on here for awhile, I think last I posted my son was in jail, he spent 4 months in Jacksonville Florida jail for burglary & picked up more felonies. He was released a month ago & decide to come back to Chicago, he really had no plan once he arrived ,no where to go , just decided to come back just like his other impulse decisions he makes, I did try to convince him to go to another sober living be he didn’t want to.
Fast forward to today he’s been out here for a month. Me, his dad & grandparents having been paying for him to stay in a motel so he can get back on his feet . I did go visit him with his little brothers , this was the first time we had seen him in 3 years. It was nice to see him & for his little brothers to reconnect with him again. Well I agreed to only pay for a motel for a month , he did get a job as a cook at Dennys but then quit because he said he got a job at Amazon but come to find out it’s not even 100% guaranteed yet . I can’t afford to pay the hotel anymore, even splitting 3 ways it coming out to be a lot, I don’t know why he would quit Dennys he was making $18 a hour for a job that’s not even guaranteed yet at Amazon. I feel guilty because if I don’t pay for hotel anymore , he will be back to being homeless, but we can’t afford it anymore. And I feel like he’s not putting alot of effort into anything ,I know he’s pretty much just sleeping around with so many different girls since he’s been back in the hotel . It’s like he’s carefree on our expense.
Fast forward to today he’s been out here for a month. Me, his dad & grandparents having been paying for him to stay in a motel so he can get back on his feet . I did go visit him with his little brothers , this was the first time we had seen him in 3 years. It was nice to see him & for his little brothers to reconnect with him again. Well I agreed to only pay for a motel for a month , he did get a job as a cook at Dennys but then quit because he said he got a job at Amazon but come to find out it’s not even 100% guaranteed yet . I can’t afford to pay the hotel anymore, even splitting 3 ways it coming out to be a lot, I don’t know why he would quit Dennys he was making $18 a hour for a job that’s not even guaranteed yet at Amazon. I feel guilty because if I don’t pay for hotel anymore , he will be back to being homeless, but we can’t afford it anymore. And I feel like he’s not putting alot of effort into anything ,I know he’s pretty much just sleeping around with so many different girls since he’s been back in the hotel . It’s like he’s carefree on our expense.