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Welcome Ally. Usually my advice is on the liberal side. I don't worry if other people think I'm enabling or doing the right thing. But, in your case, I would suggest you need to be tougher with the car. I would 100% take away access to the car if he drives high. He's risking his life and the...

DF1 I have no advice only empathy. I read your post and like so many other times, I could have been writing it. LBL is right about something important, there is no right or wrong. Why are you upset with yourself that you couldn't bear to leave your son in the cold under a bridge? This seems like...

Of course, you should do whatever you feel comfortable with. If it were me, I would contact him. He's your son. We live in constant chaos and drama so even regular activities cause us to question and doubt ourselves. Even if it triggers a request for money, you can always say "no". When I...

LBL - I'm also heart broken at your broken heart. Oh... the places I've cried! Someone at the office once asked if I had big plans for Christmas and I sobbed like a loved one had died. She won't make that mistake again. :confused:

LisaStillWater What a sad time for your family! I'm so sorry. Remember addiction is a disease but it is a family disease - everyone suffers. If it's cold where you live, you can send your son a list of homeless shelter options.

That's great news. Good for her!

That's so frightening. I'm sorry for your family's pain. I hope this is the rock bottom for your brother. You're not alone.

Hello Forum Friends I haven't posted in a while because work, health and life have all been crazy overwhelming. My latest drama has been so ridiculous I can't even share it in the place I share everything. I still haven't taken the time to find myself a therapist. That has to be my next...

Thank you so much for this reminder. This site is a god send for me even when I don't have the energy to post or respond. Someone's tone can be hurtful even when you know they mean well. I think it's so important to be able to share advice but it's great to remind us to share it with sensitivity.

Nessie, The key for me has been to force myself to live a normal life. I still feel guilty but I carry on. I make myself go on vacation, socialize, turn my phone off if I have to. There's still a voice in my head that says, "what if there's a crisis?" "what kind of mother goes on vacation when...

That's frustrating! Yes, he's 19 but he needs help. I'm sorry they wouldn't let you book the appointment. My son's psychologist lets me book his appointments. Maybe try somewhere else? Remember to take care of yourself.

Billiesue, I am not a professional so please don't take my advice for anything more than it is. I have taken a few parenting with mental illness courses and they always tell us to speak open and honestly about suicide. For example, don't ask the person if they are thinking about hurting...

I think you're being hard on yourself. You helped your daughter get a start on home ownership. Parents have been doing this for generations without the use of the word "entitled". It's unfortunate that your daughter didn't take advantage of the head start but I agree that it's her money. It...

I'm sorry that happened. It is sad and overwhelming to think your child doesn't want to live. I call the police for a wellness check every time suicide is threatened. One time it resulted in a much needed hospitalization.

llamafarm, It doesn't sound wrong to me. You are managing some exhausting life circumstances. Take advantage of the break... recharge... take care of yourself!

Happy New Year Everyone! My goal is to focus on wellness. I need to eat better and exercise. Stress always seems to destroy my health plans. But, it turns out, I'm not getting any younger. ;)

Mum It was very generous to offer to pay for his phone bill. I'm sorry you are on this path with us. Merry Christmas. You are not alone.

Thank you to everyone for your support. It's so funny that I wouldn't recognize any of you in the grocery store but you are my closest confidantes. I accept that I MUST find some help for myself. I had a couple of bad experiences trying to find a therapist but I have to try again.

Thanks for sharing your wonderful story. Hope is a scary word for most of us. But, where there is life, there is hope.

Rosanna, I'm sorry for the path your son is on. I often disagree with the opinions or comments here. Please know that it's still a soft place to land. The reason I think this forum is so important is because we're allowed to share opinions and advice. There are other forums that have rules...